Missing old town lost, 46 years of miserable life affirmed: "I was not kidnapped"

Many unverified information about the story of Ms. Trieu Le Can, who lost her family for 46 years, suddenly spread rapidly on social networks.

Recently, the social network spread dizzyingly the story "Miss old town lost her family, 46 years of miserable life was reunited with her parents" causing a stir in public opinion. The situation of Mrs. Trieu Le Can, now 62 years old, is actually excerpted from the program "As if there was never a separation" number 23, which was broadcast in October 2009.

Various streams of information continuously appeared regarding Ms. Can's situation. Someone said "she was kidnapped by infertile adoptive parents, begging for a child and treated badly", "from an old town lady who was kidnapped, was not brought up properly, could not go to school, and became a poor". Another person spread rumors, "Mrs. Can was originally a lady of Hanoi who was kidnapped and brought back to her hometown to live in misery, when her parents raised her to give birth, she rejected her and suffered a miserable life".

A wave of sympathy for Ms. Trieu Le Can, accompanied by heavy criticism of her adoptive parents, rose strongly on social networks.

However, according to Ms. Can, Mr. Doan and Ms. Oong got married early at the age of 14, but have been childless for nearly 20 years. The day they brought their 3-year-old girl home, grandparents considered Can as their own child, loving them wholeheartedly.

Mrs. Can shared: "Up to now, I confirm that I was not kidnapped, just lost in the street, brought home and fully cared for by Oong's mother", Mrs. Can said growing up to realize that she is her own child. raised, but always carefree and innocent. Regarding the information why the adoptive parents did not report to the police when they found her, she explained that it might be because her grandparents were infertile and wanted to have children, so they quickly brought her back to raise and take care of her, not with the intention of taking care of her. bad things".

In 1970, after giving birth to a baby boy, Mrs. Oong was paralyzed for two years. Due to circumstances, she was forced to let baby Can stop going to school when he finished grade 4, staying at home to help his mother take care of him. Five years later, the mother gave birth to a second son.

At the age of 19, "young girl" Trieu Le Can got married, moved to her husband's house to live, both trade and work in a horn comb production facility - which is a traditional profession of Thuy Ung village. But the "red face of fate", unhappy married life and difficult economic situation, Need to bring her daughter to live in the land the commune provides.

Ms. Can affirmed: "People say that I was kicked out of the house by my adoptive parents, relied on neighbors to take care of me, and then lived in an abandoned house. But that's absolutely not the case. A daughter who gets married has to follow her husband and go out. live separately. In 2002, I built a new house by myself, still supported by my relatives."

A villager from Thuy Ung village said that the information "Mrs. Can was supported by her neighbors when she was abandoned by her adoptive parents" was incorrect. According to this person, the custom in the village, girls/boys get married/wife abstain from staying at their parents' house.

"The two grandparents still care and take care of Mrs. Can. If the family kidnapped and treated her badly, why is Can still living happily and filial piety until now. Both Can and her daughter are very gentle, living a good life. affection," said the villager.

Meanwhile, the family of Mr. Trieu Dat Quang - Mrs. Can's biological parents later moved to Canada to settle down, but still could not ease the nostalgia for their little daughter. Every year, the couple regularly return to Vietnam, return to the old house at 34 Hang Buom, visit relatives and search for Can.

Mr. Trieu Trong Le, Mrs. Can's biological brother, registered to find his identity on the program "Like" there was never a separation. The photo of little girl Can, cut from a photo taken with her mother, is the only and most fragile thing.

That year, Mrs. Nguyen Thi Le, Mrs. Can's neighbor, accidentally saw the program's information and exclaimed, "Oh, how is it like Miss Thuy (Can)?" Upon receiving the news, Mrs. Can turned on the TV, watched the program again, and wondered about her origins.

Ms. Le asked her sister-in-law, Ms. Le Thi Thuy Huong (formerly working at the Institute of Forensic Psychiatric Assessment) to contact Nhu, who had never had a separation. The information constantly coincided, especially the secret about the scar on the ankle when a baby Needed to be carried by his father on a bicycle unfortunately suffered a big scratch. The program also asked for a sample of her hair for a DNA test.

In September 2009, Mrs. Can and her daughter kept going in and out of Saigon, working with the program As never had a separation. That day, Mrs. Can's mother and daughter went by train, met a storm, and had to stop in Dong Hoi (Quang Binh province). Mother and daughter were stuck on the train for more than a day, then took a bus back to Hanoi even though it was still half way from Ho Chi Minh City.

"I told myself that I had a hard time, even the day of family reunification would not be over," Ms. Can repeated. Two days later, the storm passed, her mother and daughter flew into Ho Chi Minh City, to Nhu's secret studio without any separation, without knowing that the biggest surprise in life was waiting.

Mrs. Can entered the studio in a new outfit, came out from the "secret" doorway to return to her family. Thought that the same old door that she stepped out of and got lost, is now open to welcome her back.

The whole family hugged their son, brother, sister. After the cries, the first sentence she uttered was "I miss you". 46 years long nostalgia.

After receiving her family back, Mrs. Can changed her name and birth certificate from Nguyen Thi Thuy to Trieu Le Can. The daughter of Nguyen Thi Le Quyen (born in 1994), was also renamed Trieu Tu Quyen.

Mr. Quang offered to welcome Can's mother and daughter to Canada to live, but she did not agree. Partly because the paperwork is very complicated, the other part is used to life in Vietnam. To satisfy the longing for children, since then, every year, Quang and his wife regularly return to Vietnam from October to April next year.

More than a year after the program "Like there was no separation", Mrs. Can's adoptive father passed away due to illness. It was not until 2017, for the first time that she went to Canada on a 1-year tourist visa, officially reuniting with her family.

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