Mom left me because I was too miserable, 50 years later, looking for and passing each other hurts my heart

Although he was abandoned by his biological mother, Mr. Hai did not blame his mother, even loved and longed to find her. As for that mother, perhaps she was also very tormented, suffering because of the old decision.

As a mother, everyone loves the child they are born with. However, because of difficult circumstances, sometimes they choose to leave their blood and blood in the hope that their children will have a better and less miserable life. Regardless of the decision, the mother must be extremely painful when she has to leave her child.

Duong Thi Hoa's story has touched many people. Even the people involved can't stop worrying when they remember.

In 1970, because of an unhappy family life, Duong Thi Hoa (who lived in My Tho at that time) took her daughter Loan and left, leaving behind her son, Duong Van Hai, who was only a few years old then. foster mother-in-law.

Mrs. Hoa plans to return to her mother's hometown in Dien Sanh, Hai Lang (Quang Tri) for a while and then return. But then, because her biological parents didn't allow it, she didn't come back anymore.

Mr. Hai lives with his grandmother in Cua Bac Street, District 1 (HCMC). During those years, the love he felt was only in his grandmother. At the age of 8, Hai was picked up by his father and returned to My Tho to live with his new family. His new name is Nguyen Van Minh.

Life with his stepmother was not easy, at the age of 16, Hai went to Lam Dong to work as a hired worker. At the age of 20, he went to visit his grandmother and did his military service. After 4 years, he left the army, returned to My Tho and then roamed around the West, until the day he met his life partner.

Hai and his wife went to the city. Ho Chi Minh City lives. Mr. Hai said with tears in his eyes: "I thought about it all the time, I don't know why my mother didn't take me along but left me. Until now, over 50 years old, I still remember my mother and my sister. I don't know where my mother is, I love her, love her, don't know if she's alive or dead. No matter what, I still love her very much."

When his grandmother passed away, he left Hai a piece of paper with the basic information of Mrs. Hoa and gave it to him, telling him to go and find his mother. Mr. Hai has kept that paper very carefully for decades. He also has a picture of his mother, but it's too blurry to see her face. He doesn't even remember what his mother looked like. If he couldn't see clearly, the more he imagined, the more he remembered her.

Life also compensates for Mr. Hai when he gives him a good wife, his wife's family knows his situation, so he should protect and help. Although the couple did not get married, they lived faithfully and happily together and had two sons. The family is also very supportive of Mr. Hai's search for his family. Bringing all the little information, he thanks the program "As if there has never been a separation", hoping to one day see his mother and sister again.

In a place not far away, Ms. Hoa and Ms. Loan also day and night look forward to seeing their son, whom he has lost contact with for many years. The program could not find Ms. Hoa and Ms. Loan in Dien Sanh, Hai Lang, Quang Tri because they left their hometown 40 years ago.

But coincidentally, on the day Mrs. Hoa and Ms. Loan went to Ho Chi Minh City to find the place where she had sent her son, that day was also the day, Mr. Hai scheduled the program to the place where he used to live with his grandmother. Their mother and daughter passed each other, not once, at very close range, but did not recognize each other. Mrs. Hoa couldn't find her son because she went the wrong way. She does not remember the alley where her mother-in-law used to live.

Thanks to the connection of the program "As if there was never a separation", Hoa's mother and daughter are reunited in 2020, after nearly 50 years of separation. Mrs. Hoa said emotionally, "I was so miserable that I left my child, it was my fault. It's true! I'm afraid that she will hate me and won't accept me. And I will always miss her."

As for Loan, she always thinks about her brother. She always asked her mother if she remembered the place where he left him in the past to look for. After many years without the warmth of his mother's love, Mr. Hai cried a lot when he was surrounded by her love. He told his mother how sad and miserable life was away from her, but it was all over, he didn't blame her but just felt lucky that mother and daughter could meet again. He said: "I'm happy to see my mother healthy." The sacred maternal love makes everyone unable to hold back their tears.

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