Marriage tragedy among Chinese men, experts use Fat Cat as an example

According to analysts, the case of gamer Fat Cat has shaken Chinese youth, especially men, who face many difficulties in finding wives and are considered by default to be strangers. Financial provision in relationships.

Sociology expert Mu Zheng of the National University of Singapore said: "The common view in Chinese society is that men must provide in exchange for a woman's qualities such as beauty and youth. , empathy and housewifery. The problem lies in expectations for men and women."

According to Mu Zheng, the chat between Luu and his ex-girlfriend showed typical expectations in a love relationship, when Luu was willing to transfer money so his girlfriend could feel secure with him.

Young Chinese people told Straitstimes that the country's skewed sex ratio makes the problem worse, with men facing the risk of not being able to find a wife. China's 2020 census results show that the number of men in the country is 30 million higher than women.

At the age of 20 to 40 - the marriageable age in China, there are 17.52 million more men than women, equivalent to a ratio of 108.9 men/100 women. Although China's younger generation is more educated, the traditional notion that men should financially support their girlfriends or wives remains widespread.

Chinese men often have to have a house and a car before getting married. If you propose, the groom's family must also give a betrothal gift to the bride's family. Economic preparation to get married is becoming increasingly difficult, as living expenses increase rapidly and income growth slows down.

Financial expert Xu Linsheng (30 years old, in Shanghai) said men are not always the providers because "sometimes, women are the ones who earn more money". "Whoever earns more can contribute more and the other person can decide how much they want to contribute, based on consensus."

Sharing the same opinion, data analyst Zhang Qiang (27 years old, in Beijing) hopes there will be more discussion about the custom of wedding invitations. "The 'bride price' seems to show that many parents want to 'sell' their daughters, or that only those with money are the ones worthy of marriage. That's really unfair. We need improve this situation so that Fat Cat's passing will not be in vain."

Summer He (29 years old, working in public relations) said she was very saddened by Fat Cat Liu Kiet's incident. "It was a tragedy, a classic example of what can happen in a loving relationship. In fact, what Liu Jie had was not even a relationship. He was victim of a terrible incident. The perpetrator was truly heartless."

Before that, social networks became abuzz with the story of the young man nicknamed Fat Cat (born in 2003, from Hunan, China). He is a 21-year-old boy who made a heartbreaking decision after ending his relationship with his girlfriend Dam Truc (born 1997).

The sister said that during their relationship, the boy continuously worked hard 15 hours a day, not daring to eat well or shop. All the money this guy earned was transferred directly to his girlfriend in the name of a "voluntary gift" so she could comfortably travel, shop, and eat during the two years they were together. His situation is even more pitiful when he does not dare to eat a portion of McDonald's even though his income is not small.

However, in response to Fat Cat's efforts, his girlfriend suddenly said goodbye just a month before the two planned to register their marriage. Due to not being able to hold on many times, Fat Cat came to a foolish decision.

At first, Fat Cat's sister thought the two were just having a normal relationship, so she accepted Dam Truc's request to return the money and signed the settlement papers. But when they searched for conversations between their late brother and his girlfriend, Fat Cat's family realized that this girl often rejected her brother even though Fat Cat always provided money and held on to her affection.

Notably, in the video, Dam Truc also said that the reason she firmly said goodbye to Fat Cat was to "test" her lover. However, with a series of messages posted to attract Fat Cat's girlfriend, netizens did not believe Dam Truc's words and continuously asked this girl to return all the money she had received. Gifted by Fat Cat.

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