The wife was called by the minor tam to declare that she was "pulling her husband", challenged with vulgar words

Ms. A in Tien Giang has been married for 14 years and has a 10-year-old son. Coming to the 3rd person, she shared her concern about whether to end with her bad, irresponsible husband and asked Dr. To Nhi A for advice.

She said: "At that time, he went to my friend's motel room to play. Many times, the two fell in love and then fell in love. Having known each other for 5 months, I knew he had a divorced wife. I was 8 years older than him. , thinking that the situation is difficult, I did not ask for the wedding, but moved to live with him." She heard her mother-in-law say that the marriage certificate is not important, so she just made the birth certificate and household registration for her children to go to school.

Working hard, she believes that she has found a husband to rely on, but gradually he reveals bad habits such as gambling, drinking, and laziness.

She recalls: "In the past, he worked according to the project, working days on days off, was quite precarious. 14 years together, he earns for himself, sometimes helps me with housework, sends my children to school. I also don't ask for it. nothing more in my husband. He has not done anything wrong but eating and drinking, fighting cocks, I can ignore it, but when giving birth, he ate and drank so much that I moved back to the old motel room to stay."

When she found out that her husband had another relationship, he went for 4 nights in a row, she asked, he said he was going to play cards. She was suspicious because she knew he had no money in his pocket to gamble. Sometimes, he even asked for money from her. If he didn't give it, he would leave in anger for a few days.

"He kept hiding his phone and didn't tell me the password. One day, he called a girl to his house to play and claimed to be his sister. I thought they were friends to eat and drink, and went to buy beer and drink for two. My sister-in-law said that her brother had a wife and children, but the other girl denied it in front of me, but still sneaked back and forth with him behind her back. She came to my house to check on the situation," she said. tell.

Every 2-3 weeks, he stayed overnight once. The other girl made dozens of calls to his phone, in the middle of the night or early in the morning, both secretly talked. He repeatedly denied, but once, the girl took his phone and called her directly, in the presence of her husband's brothers and sisters.

"I picked up the phone and heard her vulgar and defiant words. She said loudly that she was snatching my husband and daring me to come down to her house," Ms. A said.

The relationship between husband and wife for many years, "early hands and knees" every night, she worries about him everything, she warmly asks why he would dare to go to another person, he replied with a brazen attitude.

"Many men have to spend money to play girls, but here women just feed, give money, and serve me, what man doesn't like?" - Ms. A's husband responded to his wife's reproach.

The marriage "can't go, don't stay" makes her fall into a deadlock, because she loves her children, so it is difficult to decide to end. During the translation, he said he broke up with her, but one night she used his phone to disturb her.

Dr. To Nhi A put the case that Ms. A was definitely with her husband, pushing him out of her life was not difficult because the couple had not yet made a marriage certificate and had no name. Ms. A also realized that her husband couldn't take care of the economy and had no property, but if she divorced, she had to go to another country to live, to avoid being bothered by him. She clung to her husband because she did not want her children to feel sorry for herself. In married life, she was no longer interested, just didn't want to offend him.

Dr. To Nhi gave advice: "Legally, the two are not bound, he does not show responsibility. She is heavy-hearted about children, parents' divorce can leave a lot of trauma. but there is something scarier that you have to witness the bad marriage life of your parents.What will you learn from a father who has no economic role, the joint responsibility of shouldering the family responsibilities, a who casually interacts with other women. Attaching to this man is no longer beneficial to herself and her children. A good man never takes advantage of another woman's body or money. I hope she leaves this relationship as soon as possible so that she can calm down and arrange a life for herself and her children. Are you really strong, decisive or compromise, soft-hearted, entangled, that's it? It's my choice. Be strong for me to live next to a nice person, so that I can see that there is still a good value for me to follow."

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