Inviting a former colleague to a wedding but not attending or sending an envelope, the girl was upset and "collected debt"

Netizens were suddenly shocked when a girl angrily "collected debt" from a former colleague because she invited him to a wedding but neither attended nor sent an envelope. This incident caused fierce debate in the online community.

Recently, a woman named Hoang in Sichuan province, China caused controversy on social networks when complaining about her former colleague refusing her invitation to attend her wedding.

It is known that Ms. Hoang sent an invitation via social network to a former male colleague at the end of October. Accordingly, Ms. Hoang said: "I participated and gave a wedding gift when my former colleague got married with number 400 yuan (about 1.3 million dong), so I had to invite him to my wedding."‏

In addition, before holding the wedding, Ms. Hoang sent paper invitations to her colleagues, then sent electronic invitations via messaging application. Ms. Hoang said: "I sent wedding invitations twice, but in the end my colleague didn't show up."

Ms. Hoang said that male colleagues did not come to the wedding to avoid sending congratulatory money. After that, she sent a series of requests to her former colleagues to "repay their debt" but received no response.

Accordingly, Ms. Hoang wrote in the text message: "What does it mean that you didn't go to the wedding or respond to the text message? I gave you 400 yuan for your wedding, you can be absent but the red envelope must be there. It's all just It's reciprocity. At least you should return the money, I congratulated you."

In the end, this male colleague explained to Ms. Hoang's husband that he did not attend because he felt that the wedding invitation was "not sincere" and that her messages were difficult to accept. Not only that, despite Ms. Hoang's series of somewhat harsh messages, the former colleague still had no intention of celebrating the girl's wedding with cash.

However, Ms. Hoang felt that she did not insult her former colleague or intentionally want to reclaim the wedding gift. She was only angry because the other person did not respond with good will and was indifferent to the important day that she worked hard for. Invite invitations very early. Specifically, she said: "In addition to you not coming, not responding to my invitation is quite disrespectful. If you don't have money, just say so, I will ignore it. But your attitude makes me angry. I feel like I'm in debt."

This incident has attracted strong attention on social networks in the country of billions of people, sparking many debates. Most netizens believe that Ms. Hoang's actions were not polite and disrespectful in demanding Others have to return the wedding money.

However, there are also many people who defend Ms. Hoang because the congratulatory money symbolizes blessings for the bride and groom. If you cannot attend the wedding, you should still send a congratulatory gift to show your interest in the invitation. enemy.

It is known that in China, giving cash gifts to couples at weddings is considered a tradition. Earlier this year, a couple in Southeast China tore open the envelope containing the money inside to confirm that they had received congratulatory money from their guests.

However, Chinese youth have created unique wedding gifts that bear their own mark. In 2022, during difficult economic times, a couple in a country of billions of people designed a "cashless gift card". With this card, wedding guests do not need to celebrate their wedding in cash.

Previously, in August 2022, 4 men in this country personally accumulated 42kg of coins equivalent to 6,888 yuan (about 23 million VND) to give to the groom, who was also his best friend, during the wedding. your big day.

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