The girl organized her own "funeral" to overcome the shock of breaking up with her boyfriend of 3 years

A young girl in China organized her own "funeral" and invited friends to attend with the aim of forgetting her ex-lover and starting a new life, shocking netizens in this country.

6 months ago, a girl named Vuong, 25 years old, in Sichuan, China ended a 3-year long relationship with her boyfriend. The reason is that her parents object to this love affair on the grounds that the two are too far apart. After the relationship broke down, the young girl was still tormented.

Recently, Ms. Vuong attended several weddings and her friends asked when they could eat at her wedding reception. Because her friends teased and asked her too much, she decided to hold a "funeral" for herself, an event that according to traditional Chinese custom is accompanied by a party.

At her own funeral, Ms. Vuong invited her friends to attend and say goodbye to her. She thinks that this "funeral" will give friends a chance to gather, and also symbolize the revival of a new life without her boyfriend.

The 25-year-old girl invited dozens of friends to attend her "funeral". The ceremony was held at a flower shop in Chengdu, China. This place is lent to the store owner for free.

Accordingly, the "funeral" took place in a dimly lit room, with Ms. Vuong lying on a bed covered with white cloth surrounded by candles and a large black and white portrait. Ms. Vuong's friends performed rituals such as bowing, giving her white flowers one by one, and walking around where she lay. The ceremony is performed the way people do at a regular funeral.

After the ceremony ends, Ms. Wang will come back to life and her friends will hug her and eat together. Friends shared their thoughts about Vuong, sharing their concepts of life and death as well as the various challenges in life.

"While some people saw my idea as pioneering and unique, my friends believed that I could get over a painful breakup by staging this 'funeral'. Now I have experienced it." my own party, I feel like I have closed the past and am ready to move forward" - Ms. Vuong said.

Ms. Vuong also said that the "funeral" was her way of healing the pain after breaking up with her boyfriend because his parents did not agree to let them get married. She also had an unhappy childhood as one of many so-called "left behind" children in China. The term "left behind children" is used to describe children who are left behind by their parents in the countryside to work in urban areas.

Ms. Vuong's "funeral" has caused a debate in the online community. Most comments agreed and encouraged the girl to take action to forget her ex-boyfriend. One person said: "The funeral is not for her, but for the 3-year romance and her youth. The girl just wants to end it, forget the love so she can look forward to the future." better, more optimistic".

They also said that because they kept "gnawing" on the pain, they should do something new and thought that the girl was really brave to use such a unique way to say goodbye to the past and welcome the past. receive your new life.

However, some people expressed concern about the girl's "funeral" to revive her: "To me, people holding their own funerals sounds weird and ominous. Honestly, "It makes me scared. If this becomes a trend among young people, it will be very dangerous. There are many other ways to forget your ex and make yourself more positive."

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