The boy canceled the engagement because the bride's family offered the wedding price too high, took the money to travel to 40 cities and ended

Thanh ThanhNov 13, 2023 at 15:59

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The incident of a young man in China being challenged to marry 634 million VND so he decided to cancel the wedding and travel to 40 cities instead of getting married has attracted a lot of attention from the online community.

Recently, the incident of a young man in China being challenged to marry 634 million VND so he decided to cancel the wedding and travel to 40 cities instead of getting married has attracted a lot of public attention. same network.

The boy canceled the engagement because the brides family offered the wedding price too high, took the money to travel to 40 cities and ended - Photo 1

This man named Quach Hieu, 35 years old, from Son Tay, China said he and his lover met not long ago. Because he felt that both sides were very compatible and both sides were very sincere, the boy decided to propose to the girl.

Quach Hieu's monthly income is 5,000 yuan (16.6 million VND). To meet the bride's family's wedding challenge, he borrowed 20,000 yuan (66.7 million VND) from a friend and used his personal savings. In addition, his parents said they would pay the deposit to buy the property after the wedding, as long as he could repay the loan.

The turning point came in May, when his fiancee asked for an additional 30,000 yuan (more than 100 million VND), so he decided to cancel the marriage. This man said he was exhausted after not being able to meet the engagement gift worth 190,000 yuan (more than 634 million VND) offered by his bride's family.

The boy canceled the engagement because the brides family offered the wedding price too high, took the money to travel to 40 cities and ended - Photo 2

Quach Hieu also shared with the media that he felt relieved when he canceled the wedding: "I really had no money and I started to feel disappointed."

Instead of being angry, he felt helpless and decided to end the relationship. After canceling the marriage, he used the 168,000 yuan (more than 560 million VND) he saved to travel.

He said: "The world is big and I want to see it. Instead of going into debt because of marriage, why not enjoy the beauty of things around us?".

Quach Hieu didn't plan for a year of living like a budget traveler. He quit his job and left on June 1. Up to now, he has gone to more than 40 cities and spent more than 30,000 yuan (more than 100 million VND).

The boy canceled the engagement because the brides family offered the wedding price too high, took the money to travel to 40 cities and ended - Photo 3

After spending 5 months traveling alone, Quach Hieu's passion for travel gradually "cooled down". He is also about to return home to continue looking for another marriage without the pressure of a wedding favor. Quach Hieu shared: "Maybe it's time to return to my parents."

When asked about his opinion on the custom of challenging the bride's family, Quach Hieu said: "It's unfair, but most men will still follow the custom because they have no other choice."

Quach Hieu's story, when posted on social networks, sparked a large debate on forums about the custom of wedding invitations.

The boy canceled the engagement because the brides family offered the wedding price too high, took the money to travel to 40 cities and ended - Photo 4

Some opinions agree with his opinion that offering too much money is unfair to men: "It's the right decision, I feel like we should abandon the custom of offering marriage because men and women are equal." ". "You're taking care of yourself. I think that's reasonable, instead of having to carry a pile of debt when getting married."

However, there are also some opinions that the custom of demanding marriage is reasonable, it is also a relatively cheap price to get the girl that their parents had to raise for decades until she grew up and married her. husband.

According to custom, men in China must meet the bride's family's wedding challenge of 10,000 to 1 million yuan (33 million VND - 3.3 billion VND), but currently, many young people are protesting against the tradition. This.

The story of the guy mentioned above is not the only case. Recently, in Hubei, China, a couple hugged each other and sobbed because their family prevented them, making many people feel sad.

It is known that both are each other's first love, the boy is 38 years old and the girl is 29 years old. After 8 years of love, the two decided to get married but unexpectedly encountered opposition from their families. The reason is because the groom's family did not have enough money to pay the bride's family 500,000 yuan (about 1.6 billion VND) for the wedding.

The boy canceled the engagement because the brides family offered the wedding price too high, took the money to travel to 40 cities and ended - Photo 5

The young man then explained that because he and his relatives had tried to collect money to buy a house before, they could not manage such a large amount of money.

However, the girl's family said that the red book is still in the name of the boy's parents, and the daughter who marries over is not in the red book, so there is no guarantee for their daughter. Furthermore, this wedding challenge amount has been a common level in the locality for many years, every family has offered the same wedding challenge. Therefore, the bride's family requires the bride price to be in cash. Even though they will only give it to the children later, they still want security for their daughter. In the end, the two sides could not find a common voice. There was no other way. The couple hugged each other and sobbed.

The boy canceled the engagement because the brides family offered the wedding price too high, took the money to travel to 40 cities and ended - Photo 6

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