The case of 2k7 female students at Vinh University: The class split into factions, played in 3 groups, a series of psychologists spoke up

Regarding the case of a 10th grade girl at Nghe An gifted school who ended her life at home because of suspicion of being bullied at school, the school's representative, Mr. Dinh Phan Khoi, spoke out in front of the media.

Accordingly, in the latest updates from VietnamNet, Mr. Dinh Phan Khoi (Head of General Administration Department of Vinh University) said that right after the incident happened, Vinh University High School for the Gifted has conducted a review of all. settlement activities in accordance with the law.

Accordingly, the school will review the issues provided by parents and students as well as update reports in the press and social networks, and coordinate with the security agency of Nghe An province to clarify the incident. According to Mr. Dinh Phan Khoi, the initial review in class 10A15 divided into 3 groups of students.

Through the initial investigation, it was known that female student N. belonged to the first group, then N. transferred to the second group. Students of these two groups do not get along well. The students in the third group played with the students in the other two groups. Currently, the school has also temporarily suspended the work of the homeroom teacher and the police agency has stepped in to verify the incident.

It has been almost a week since the incident happened, social public opinion is still extremely concerned and expressed the sharing stemming from the reason that this girl is said to have a psychological crisis due to being bullied by her classmates. bullying and isolation for long periods of time, leading to distraught that ends up in life. Many questions were asked such as: "The school's response when there is school violence?", "Are students lacking life skills, have not done anything to protect themselves, instead of making a decision foolish, heartbreaking?" or "What lessons do we need to learn?"

There has been a sharp reaction from the public and the online community, saying that the female student had to end her own life due to being beaten, abused and psychologically overwhelmed, while the family case was known, announced and announced. suggest that the school change classes for girls to avoid the behavior from continuing. And the problem was not promptly resolved.

From the incident, the question is whether young people seek liberation too easily, showing weakness and inability to resolve conflicts and face difficulties in life?

According to Master of Psychology Vu Thu Ha: "A person intends to end his or her own life because he or she has been in great pain for a long time and doesn't know how to deal with that pain. When they are in pain, they think a lot negatively, they feel a lot of disappointments and failures. They want to die and that's the way to end the pain."

Dr. Nguyen Tung Lam, Chairman of the Hanoi Association of Educational Psychology, said: "The problem is that in the case of students entering the same path, what lessons can be learned by the family and the school? The student revealed that he was isolated and subjected to violence. She revealed to her parents and family that she had searched for a school, but the school's behavior was not timely and improper."

Psychologist Dr. Tran Thanh Nam analyzed, the case was not handled properly... After the disclosure, if the matter is not resolved, the incident will continue, it will make the victim feel Despair has no way out. I regret that I told the whole thing to my family, the whole school, but no one could help me. All these thoughts and psychological developments can be the final push to very extreme choices that end their lives from young people."

It is known that the female student had good academic performance, but suddenly dropped out of school and told her mother "I'm afraid to go to school, I'm afraid to go to school". When I found out, I found out that I was being bullied. Therefore, the mother went to the school to ask to change the class for her child, to the homeroom teacher to ask for intervention. The school does not allow class change but promises to find out and strictly handle it. The mother is temporarily reassured that the school and the child will be able to handle the problem on their own. However, the female student acted foolishly.

According to Prof. Dr. Vu Thu Huong, former lecturer at the Department of Primary Education, Hanoi National University of Education, when discovering that their child is being bullied at school, parents need to become a spiritual support for their children, so that their children can vent their heart out. thinking, thinking, resentful. However, parents need to guide and encourage their children to find solutions and handle them on their own.

According to Ms. Hoang Thi Thu Nhien - a mind-language programming expert at Thu Nhien Better Minds Community Support Center, the lack of sharing between parents and children is a huge reason why it is difficult for children to get out. from the above situation".

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