SHOC.K: Married female teacher, cheatin.g with student's parents

Ms. A (43 years old) is a teacher living in Ho Chi Minh City. She has been married since the ag.e of 23. Having lived in a marriage with an abusive, unhappy husband, she has become a third person. Although the wrong love affair ended a long time ago, regret is still imprinted in her mind.

Ms. A met her husband through matchmaking. Seeing that he was tall and handsome, she followed her parents' orders to get married, although she had not yet carefully studied the other's character. The marriage was not as rosy as she expected.

"The first time we lived together was full of happiness, but gradually he showed jealous.y, rough temper, and temper. Once, he got angry and put a bowl of ho.t pho over my hea.d. Two years later, I having the first chil.d, the husband and wife mostly quarrel. I think it's okay, anything can happen against my will. When the chil.d was 3 years old, I used to carry the chil.d to my grandmother's house. I feel marriage when It almost collapsed," said Mrs. A bitterly.

Although he loves his wife and children, his character is dictatorial and imposing. What he does not like, his wife and children will not be able to do. Once, she went to a wedding to a friend he didn't like, she wore a bra. When she got home from the party, he tore that shirt.

After 6 years, the couple decided to separate. During the time of suffering because of her husband, she happened to meet a friend she once loved unrequitedly in high school. That man is the parent of a student in the class, who is having a happy family. The moment they met again, the two reminisced about the past. He used to be the one who made her flutter when she was young, she took the initiative and asked about the old people. He showed care, pampering, then appointments outside of school. And whatever comes has happened.

"The old friend made up for my husband's shortcomings. He cared about every little thing, worried, asked me every time I was tired, spoiled me a lot. He confessed that he didn't know I loved him unrequitedly. His family is still warm, his wife is very good, and I bring him new emotions," said Ms. A.

Dr. To Nhi A asked Ms. A how it feels to be a "third person", and Ms. A confessed: "I am very scared, afraid of public opinion, I am afraid that your wife and my husband will fight with jealous.y. Every day at school, I no longer have the mind to teach. At night, I torment, lose sleep for many nights. But every moment with him, I forget everything. I rush at him like a moth. my wife, she is very gentle and does not detect this wrong."

Sometimes, she probed and asked if she left her husband to come to him, if he could leave his wife to come to her, but he kept silent. During the two years of maintaining a relationship, she embraced and hoped that one day the two "righteous and righteous" two would come together. One day, when she saw reality, her work and her children, she decided to be clear with him.

"That day, I made an appointment to en.d with him. I said that if he wanted to continue, he had to make a decision. I didn't want both of us to live in a life of lying to our loved ones. I flatly refused to meet up. when he made a decision, but after thinking about it for a while, he couldn't give up on his wife, so he ended up with me," she said.

Sister A "returns" to her husband, although his temper is still as hot-tempered as ever. The oldest daughter is 20 years old, she thinks it is necessary to live more because of her family responsibilities. She confided: "Daughter said if her mother felt that she could not live with her father, she should get out soon, but I am now 43 years old, I need to live for the sake of my children. If I had been more patient, I would have endured a little. the family is still at peace."

After a mistake because of becoming the 3rd person, she advises women not to blame fate, be strong, definitively seek true happiness, but be careful in choosing a partner, do not as a "third person".

Listening to the story, Dr. To Nhi A shared: "In the story with an old classmate, time has proven that he belongs to the family more. They hold us back because they can't bear to let go of a new spice. in their lives. A right relationship must be built from two sides, can't be cultivated by one side, and a man can do nothing but bear fruit."

The female doctorate highly appreciated her courage when Ms. A strongly came to the program and confessed her suppresse.d thoughts. She does not encourage anyone to become the 3rd person or "exterminate" all roads if they want to go back, but everyone please understand that the person in the situation is the 3rd person, their inner turmoil is full of turmoil. tear, they live a messy life. We do not make excuses for anyone, but in a marriage if there is no care, adulter.y will happen to both sexes.

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