TikToker said: "Women washing dishes is a Vietnamese custom" controversial

Recently, on social networks, there has been a controversy about the problem that girls are angry about being assumed to be girls to do housework and wash dishes.

Specifically, the TikTok MLT account posted a video expressing her views on the issue of washing dishes in the family, this TikToker objected to the elderly women asking her to cook rice and wash dishes to serve men. in the house "sitting and drinking". The reason is because she thinks that they have two hands and can completely do it themselves. Accompanying the video, MLT left a status line: "Does healthy people know how to serve themselves?".

After only a few hours of posting, the clip of MLT has gone viral on many social networking forums. Countless netizens have left comments on TikToker's videos, mainly divided into two streams of opinion. Accordingly, some opinions agreed, saying that in modern society, all members should help each other with housework. In particular, when organizing a table or making a tray of rice to gather, regardless of men or women, each person needs to contribute a hand.

At the same time, they also think it will be better if everyone knows how to divide the work. For example, elderly men peck chickens, cook complex dishes; and women take on the task of going to the market, processing dishes that require sophistication; children and grandchildren do odd jobs such as picking vegetables, cleaning, washing dishes... Thus, everyone is less tired and happy. However, many people also pointed out that the way she expressed her views was a bit "harsh".

Contrary to the above thought, many netizens commented that adults, who are busy with making money and taking care of everything big and small, sometimes have the opportunity to meet together. Therefore, it is not difficult for children and grandchildren to cook and clean for their aunts and uncles. Especially when MLT only refers to simple "cooking and washing dishes", absolutely no complicated dishes.

Besides, the idea of "small age doing small things" has been sent to us since childhood. Therefore, the fact that young people do what they can is also a way to thank their fathers and uncles for working hard day and night to take care of their families and clans.

In response to the girl's point of view, many male representatives voiced their objections. Recently, a guy re-shared a video clip of MLT and had a comment section, causing netizens to once again have a heated argument.

Specifically, this guy said:

"There is no family in this country of Vietnam where children and grandchildren force their aunts and uncles to wash dishes... And the fact that women wash dishes is a custom and custom of the Vietnamese people. Men take care of the water, women take care of the housework, people still have to work hard out there to earn money to support their families, not just idle food. Washing dishes is too small a thing.

Never say the word men and women are equal here. Who does the heavy work, who builds the house, who cares about the electricity when the power goes out, has a woman ever moved her hands or feet, or has it depended on her husband or family members who are men ...".

Accordingly, this guy thinks that men have worked hard with many different hard jobs, so they ignore the word that men and women are equal in who does housework or washes dishes. And by default, women having to wash dishes is a Vietnamese custom. Many people expressed frustration and dissatisfaction with the boy's comparison. Netizens did not defend the other woman's opinion as right or wrong, but were annoyed with the boy's interpretation of the role of men and women in modern society.

Many women are also angry to speak out because today's generation of women go out to work and earn a lot of money. Even they can still do a lot of work without always needing the help of men.

Netizen commented: "I agree with the opinion that when aunts and uncles come to the house to play, we should wash dishes and clean up, not a refugee. However, the view that men raise families and women have to wash dishes is a complete mistake. All this time, women also have to go to the street to earn money, even if they stay at home to play, they can't tell the difference"; "I don't think the other girlfriend is completely right, but this male friend's opinion is 100% wrong. In 2021, there is still the opinion that men make money, women wash dishes? So women also make money, even earn more than many men, who washes it? Bring it to the neighbors to wash it"; "The point of view is so patriarchal. Living in the same house is to love and support each other, not defaulting to anyone's work"... Currently, the video clip is still being shared widely on social networks. and received mixed opinions.

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