Husband committed adultery, wife tried to commit suicide, causing both children to become depressed

Ms. A (28 years old) is living and working in Ho Chi Minh City, is a victim in a family with a third person interfering.

According to the story, her parents knew each other for nearly 8 years before getting married. Her mother has a gentle and soft personality, while her father is smart when he is in the marketplace. Because of their opposite personalities, the two could not find a common voice. He looked to other women because he thought they were superior to his wife in every way.

When A was 6 years old, her mother took her and her 2-year-old brother to catch jealousy. Mom said to go look for dad because he hasn't come home for many days. The image of another woman sitting on her father's lap forever haunted her memory for more than 20 years.

Discovering the love scene of the couple, the mother could not contain her anger, but before she could rush into the jealousy, he was assaulted first. Parents fight and argue in front of their children. Grandparents also came and invited the police to intervene. Because she suffered so much, she decided to divorce. At that time, both quickly resolved because there was no common property. Sister A follows her mother, while her younger brother lives with her father.

The collapse of the marriage made the mother's psyche severely affected. Once, when I applied for a job, my mother got into a car accident and seriously injured her leg. A unconsciously called her father, and he came and threw the money in her mother's face. He told her not to use this method to hold him back. Dad didn't let her see her brother, when she missed her son, her mother often hid behind the electric pole in front of the house, to look at her son, because when she showed her face, her mother would be beaten by her father.

The time spent living with her mother left in Ms. A's horrible childhood memories. She choked back: "After 3-4 years of my parents' divorce, I became depressed. My mother didn't hit me, but just sat in front of me threatening to commit suicide. She took the medicine to take, looked at me and then put it back in. Mom hit her head against the wall... She used all means to end her life, sometimes she had to give more than 20 bottles of sea water to revive her. She locked herself in the house."

At the age of 9, the uncle discovered that sister A showed signs of depression when playing and pinching herself, hurting herself. Grandma found a psychologist to come to her home to treat her.

Not stopping there, the pain of family separation continued to affect the little brother. Mrs. A burst into tears and said: "When my brother was 5 years old, once picking him up at home to play, his mother discovered bruises all over his body. He was abused by his stepmother for a long time." Loving you, grandparents took their grandson to take care of him.

When Ms. A was in 7th grade, her father divorced her second wife because of economic problems. He expressed his desire to return to his ex-wife. She had followed her father for many years and caught him sneaking around with the third person many times even when his second wife was giving birth. When he made a lot of money, he only enjoyed himself. When he ran out of money, he went back to her mother. Although she strongly objected, her mother still agreed to come back.

"At that time, it was I who followed my parents on a date. I knew that his purpose was my mother's money, not from love, and called my grandparents to pull my mother back. Meetings After that, my father borrowed a lot of money from my mother, and my mother had to borrow money from outside for him. When he could not borrow more, he turned to leave her mother again, "she said chokingly.

At that time, she "hated her mother's weakness". When A's mother took her son home to adopt, because she wanted to compensate for her son's affection, her mother pampered him despite it. Gradually, I played with bad friends and went down the road of "addiction".

Ms. A pressed: "In the 11th grade, I only saw home as a place to sleep. After school, I went to the net room to play games until late at night before going home to sleep. My mother stayed up until early morning to wait for her son to come home. My mother took care of my grandparents who were sick and worried about her wandering son. I hated her at that time.In 2014, I started working when I found out that my brother was addicted. hid her mother, but in the end, she couldn't hide it anymore when the ward police contacted the family."

According to Ms. A, the best solution at that time to help her brother quit smoking was to separate his mother. I am afraid that your loving mother will not be tough enough for you to treat. I have to be in a separate place. At that time, Ms. A also had to work, so she could not take care of me 24/7. Therefore, Sister A asked her three sisters to live together. But she did not expect that the abusive father would once again take advantage of his son's addiction and ask for money from his mother again and again.

At this point, sister A's mother clearly realized the evil nature of her ex-husband, and she managed to get herself out of this toxic relationship.

The obsession with broken family made Ms. A no longer believe in love story, or married life. In 2014, Ms. A had a boyfriend but decided to break up. She is self-conscious about her family situation, and intends to be a single mother and does not want to get married.

Dr. To Nhi A gave advice to Ms. A: "Each of us must be confident in ourselves and persevere, no recovery will happen quickly, it takes time and a companion to go with us. overcome childhood psychological trauma.

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