The wif.e raised her husband lazily working for 7 years, just posted a secret 'seal' of 280 billion, fans turned the car

"I've been married for seven years, he stays at home playing games every day, refuses to go to work and doesn't help me take care of my children, I really can't stand it anymore!", Ms. Yen, who lives in Zhengzhou (China), angrily shared with the mediation expert.

This new incident in China is currently attracting a lot of public attention. Especially when the husband publicizes 1 controversial thing. Coming from a poor family, Yen always aspires to study and strive to rise. However, due to difficult circumstances, she had to quit school early to work to earn a living. When she reached the ag.e of marriage, she only had a very simple wish, which was to find a responsible man and build a peaceful family together.

Luck came to the poor gir.l who overcame difficulties, in a coincidence, Yen met the "destiny" of her life - Mr. Phong is also her current husband.

In contrast to Ms. Yen's difficult situation, Mr. Phong was born and raised in a well-off family. Because he is the only son in the house, he is always pampered and cared for by his parents. After graduating from high school, his parents wanted him to study medicin.e. Although he didn't like it, Mr. Phong still completed the program. After graduating, he also had a stable job.

It was at this stage that the two accidentally met each other. Ms. Yen was attracted to Mr. Phong's understanding at that time, and Mr. Phong loved the tenderness and thoughtfulness of the little gir.l. After a period of dating, the two proceeded to marriage under the cultivation of both families.

Their married life was quiet with two handsome sons until the family encountered a "big event". That's when Mr. Phong received a huge compensation for land clearance. Since then, the man has changed completely. He quit his job, stayed at home all day doing nothing, and even left his two hungry children crying. The grieving wif.e recounted: "I go to work every day like a battle, and when I come home, I don't have rice and water. You cry for dad, but he only knows how to play games."

In front of his wif.e's tense attitude, the man offered something that made everyone dumbfounded. "This is my bank account, there are 80 million yuan (about 280 billion VND) in it. I can't spend this mone.y all my life, what do I go to work?", the man shared indifferently. This situation surprised the mediator present at the scene.

Even made many netizens have to "turn around" and think: "That amount is really huge, if you don't destroy the family, it will be enough to spend for a very long time."

After listening to Ms. Yen's sharing, the mediation expert helped her calm down and analyze right and wrong. The expert pointed out the mistake in the wif.e's way of communicating, according to which what the wif.e wants here is a responsible husband who cares about the family. Ms. Yen didn't want to see only a cold and indifferent man every time she returned home. However, instead of saying her wishes gently, Ms. Yen was heavy on her husband, causing the relationship between the two to gradually become tense.

On the contrary, experts also point out the husband's mistake when he is too focused on having mone.y. It is true that the economy plays a very important role in building a family, but affection and companionship are the important keys to building a home. Fortunately, after being reconciled and understanding the other party's wishes, the husband also listened and agreed to heal the family's happiness.

Lazy husbands often "hide" and do not come home after work, but if they do, they also sit and watch TV, phone... while the wives are busy going to the market, picking up children, cooking... Marrying husbands who are lazy to do housework, how can a wif.e pull her husband to participate?

Regardless of the era, most men hold the inherent view that they work big and women work small. For them, housework and childcare are not part of their obligations and consider it as a woman's. Even in developed countries such as Japan, the survey also shows that men spend only 1/4 of the time doing housework as women. Many people also want their wives to quit their jobs at home so that they can work to support their families, so more and more Japanese women decide to live single.

In fact, the nature of most men is not lazy but they don't like to do housework. The case of Mr. Hoang Van Manh (in Ha Dong, Hanoi) is an example. His nature is not that he is not a hard worker. The proof is that he is a very exemplary employee at the office, but for him, housework is very scary.

Psychologist Trinh Trung Hoa said that the main reason for this is partly due to nature, mostly from the wif.e herself who makes them lazy about housework. Not all men are lazy to do housework. In fact, there are men who are lazy a lot, some people who are lazy a little, and there are also people who work hard to help their wives with housework.

There are husbands who want to help their wives but are not used to work, so they do things in vain, and the wives grumble and criticize when they see this. Such as blowing rice and criticizin.g it for not being able to swallow, washing dishes and criticizin.g it for dirty, sweeping it is not thorough ... doing anything "looks itchy". Men don't like to be talked about much, and gradually don't want to do it. But many wives dismiss that it is better to do the navel for a while than to let the husband "mess up" and then have to clean up the back. It b.ai that criticism makes them afraid to work and gradually become lazy.

"A wise woman when she sees her husband start to remind her of housework, let her husband be comfortable every time she does it. Don't nag and criticize b.ai, but encourage and accept the results. Absolutely avoid the fact that the husband has just finished working and goes to clean up in the back, such as washing the dishes, the wif.e also washes it, hangs the painting or photo that she does not want to take down... That's like telling him not to do it again next time," psychologist Trinh Trung Hoa advised.

According to psychologists, to "train" a husband from a lazy man to a husband who knows how to cultivate, sharing household chores with his wif.e is a whole process. Especially for husbands from boys who are pampered by their mothers and sisters or sisters, they rarely get their hands on anything.

Many wives negatively divide the work in each family and press each other in a tense way. That's not necessarily a good way. Wanting their husbands to share housework with them, women should not only complain and extract lead, but mainly "train" them to be hardworking husbands, considering doing everything in the house with their wives as a joy and happiness. Often men are still clumsy in housework, so if they have participated, the instructions are given, but remember to be as brief as possible because men do not like to talk at length.

The wif.e should sho.w her husband that there are things that need her husband's help. There is no need to urge him to do this or that, but let him see it for himself by occasionally ignoring housework because he is too busy.

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