The 40-year-old man is controversial because he wants to find a wife to cook a meal for only ... 20,000 VND

Today, taking 20,000 to the market is very difficult to choose an item, but a 40-year-old man in a recent dating program raised the point of wanting to get a wife '20,000 thousand can also cook. "meaningful family meal" caused netizens to argue vehemently.

Specifically, a man named Cao Tuan (40 years old), currently a warehouse worker in Ho Chi Minh City, set up a program to connect with a female friend. When asked by the MC about his opinion "who will hold the money in the house?", Mr. Tuan expressed that "the one who keeps the money is the person who knows how to spend money".

He said on the program: "How do I use money to maximize its effectiveness. Maybe I hold 20,000, but creating a really meaningful family meal, but for other people, I have to use numbers. It's 200,000 to have a good meal."

Immediately, the saying "holding 20,000 VND to create a delicious meal" made people stir. Many people think that with the price of 20,000, it is not possible to create a full meal of meat and fish, let alone a delicious meal. Some people even criticized this man for being "stingy, tight spending".

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However, looking at it from another angle, the implication of Mr. Tuan in this statement is aimed at the cultivation of women. The meal of 20,000 VND is just an example. The wife can cook a meal of 50,000 VND, 100,000 VND or even 500,000 VND, as long as the family is warm and happy.

Currently, the above story is still causing fierce debate in the online community.

Instead of criticizing the man in the story, let's analyze to see clearly what he wants to convey to the opponent.

Criticized for saying: "Take 20,000 to create a meal"

Many people have criticized Mr. Tuan for the above statement, saying that he ... ki bo, with 20,000 dong in the current time of escalating prices, told him to cook a meal was like a challenge.

But here Mr. Tuan is probably just using a simile. 20,000 VND with fried eggs, boiled vegetables, sesame salt will also be a meaningful family meal, instead of beef and seafood meals costing 200,000 thousand VND, but maybe a meal comes from messy shopping. , you don't buy it, lack of calculation.

Today is a meal of 20,000, tomorrow is 50,000; 100,000, constantly changing and having a balance, arrangement, and avoiding waste is ingenious.

Tuan's statement shows that he wants his woman to know how to make money meaningful and nurture the home. Those who are good at cultivating will get 20,000 meals, those who are not smart, 200,000 will not be enough. Moreover, he said: "20,000 thousand can also cook a meaningful family meal" rather than asking: 20,000 for a full and rich meal.

Both sides need to discuss, agree and respect each other

In fact, many women who are in charge of keeping money at home find themselves not knowing how to spend, spending too much every month without really knowing what they have spent. There are families of 4 people who only spend 12 million dong a month on everything in the house and still have enough.

But there are families who spend 30 million VND/month, with only the daily necessities, but still find that there is a shortage of places, missing places. If we are not a spender, should we try to "embrace" it?

Not to mention, put in the situation of Mr. Tuan and Ms. Nhan. Mr. Tuan is quite a delicate person when he realizes the weaknesses of the other party, that is, when she lives too emotionally, seeing someone begging, billions of dollars, poor complaints, she is ready to give them money. This easily leads to Ms. Nhan doing charity in the wrong place.

Surely there is no man who wants his wife to take money and then give it to this person, tomorrow to someone else, but not sure if she gave it to the right person or not?

In return, Mr. Tuan is a rational person who considers everything he does. If he has to give it to the right person, even if it is 1,000 VND, it will also promote the value of money.

After talking more, Mr. Tuan also told Ms. Nhan that: "Expensive issues, we discuss with each other, agree to spend, that's normal. Spending has a limit, there is a discussion about it. Okay".

This statement shows that Tuan is a responsible person and also respects the opponent. If it is found that the other party does not have the ability to spend, then both sit down to discuss and come to an agreement on a common point of view, which is the smartest solution. Because once married, it is very important for husband and wife to share and listen to each other, not only in money matters, but also in other matters.

In short, the spending problem is very difficult to find a solution. If one person can't solve it, then two people trying to solve it will be much faster.

Money is earned by both husband and wife working hard. It is something to help us build a life, take care of the future, so it is very necessary for ingenious calculations from those who have the ability to "spend smartly". Sometimes, from unreasonable spending in the family will also lead to discord between husband and wife, damaged marriage.

Of course, no one advocates thrifty spending, measuring fish sauce jars, counting onions and cucumbers. And each tree, each flower, each house, each scene. I don't know how much to spend / month is enough, it is lacking, but the key is that the money holder needs to be balanced, why spend so much, spend within their ability and conditions. family, promoting the value of money, so that they can both take good care of their daily lives and still have a reserve fund for illness and accumulation for the future.

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