A widowed woman in her 70s married a new man, the secret to keeping her husband for more than 2 decades is curious

Nguyễn KimApr 23, 2024 at 16:07

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Mrs. Tu Lanh (73 years old) and her husband, Mr. Hai Ut (51 years old), are loved and supported by their neighbors because of their gentleness and sincerity. Despite the age difference and living in difficult circumstances, the two have been close and loved each other for more than 20 years.

The story of a 73-year-old woman marrying a young man 22 years younger is no longer strange to the people of Nga Bay area (Hau Giang) as well as public opinion. Over time, many people are curious about the life of the "misaligned" couple after becoming "famous" on social networks.

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Some people even wonder whether Ms. Tu Lanh (73 years old) and Mr. Hai Ut (51 years old) still love each other as before. They are afraid that after being "famous", young men will easily fall apart and look for younger women.

" I am the main character in the twisted love story that people in this area often talk about! And my husband is 51 years old this year. We have been living together for 23 years, not in a day or two like many people say. "I'm old and weak now, I can't work and make money like before, so I completely rely on him," Ms. Tu shared on T.GS YouTube channel.

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Mrs. Tu originally had a husband and a stepchild. After that, she became a single mother, raising her children alone with the view that if she met someone who truly loved them, they would marry them. But she is still alone in the journey of raising her children to adulthood.

" Twenty-three years ago, I was a single mother and was matched by an acquaintance to marry a young man named Hai Ut. I refused because there was no way I could marry someone old enough to be my child.

At that time, my friend kept encouraging me to try talking back and forth. I think yes, I'm used to it, it's like having another friend to confide in. Unexpectedly, we talked a few times and suddenly developed feelings. I decided to take advantage of good relationships and become husband and wife. Maybe that's the fate from my previous life to this life that I have to repay ," the 73-year-old woman confided.

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Mr. Hai Ut - Mrs. Tu's husband - said that at that time he was a virgin, working hard to earn money to support his elderly father. Because of the situation, he did not dare to think about getting married and building a small home together.

"I'm poor, and my father is sick and old. I only know how to go everywhere to find a job. When I returned to Hau Giang to work, my brothers and sisters loved me very much! They knew the situation so they introduced Tu. I was very shy, but I didn't expect it." It's fate," Mr. Hai said.

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Living together for the past 23 years, the couple is always together and takes care of each other. Although the couple is not rich, they are always filled with love for each other. Marrying someone much older, Mr. Hai Ut is a bit "disadvantaged" when it comes to children, but he has never thought about going out and finding another woman to have children.

Mrs. Tu confided: " Our feelings are still the same, nothing has changed at all. We still love each other, care for each other every day.

I also told him: "I'm old and weak now. You can find another woman to be your wife and have a child." He scolded me for talking nonsense, living together for so many years for not understanding each other and still joking around like that."

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As soon as his wife finished speaking, Mr. Ut quickly explained : "How can I go any further? For example, if she has brothers, children and grandchildren... then she dares to leave, but now she's alone. I live with her not only for love but also for meaning.

One day as husband and wife, we will be together forever, not to mention we have been married for decades. I don't want to have children either, I just wish she could live longer and be healthy and happy."

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Regarding whether the 22 year age difference is slandered by people or not, Mr. Hai said that sometimes he sees people saying many unpleasant things like "hiding in women's clothes", "chasing the king"... He feels a little sad but Don't worry, always put the relationship between husband and wife first.

" I felt that he truly loved me. One day, a woman came to his house to entice him to come with her, promising a prosperous life and money. He refused and invited them to leave, hoping not to. annoying ", Ms. Tu shared.

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