The clip of the wife being "physically affected" by her husband in front of 2 small children makes Netizen angry

Netizens think that this will be a haunting moment throughout their childhood when witnessing domestic violence.

People often say: "Women get married as a gamble". If you are lucky, you will get a good husband, if you are unlucky, you will fall into an incomplete marriage. The burden of rice, rice, and money is not enough, every day must be beaten by the person who "earns his head and knees".

Recently, MXH expressed concern after watching a clip of a couple resolving conflicts with violence. Viewing the camera footage, it's unclear what happened to the couple before that. Only saw the husband entering the room, pointing his finger to ask his wife to clean the tray of rice on the floor. Perhaps because he did not follow the request, the man became angry and threw all the dishes and utensils out the window. Hearing a loud noise, the woman ran out of the room. The two began to talk back and forth, then the husband suddenly picked up the iron bar and slammed it, causing the wife to cry in pain. It seemed that her stamina had reached its limit, and the wife hurriedly waved the throwing utensils in return. However, being the weaker sex himself, after only a few seconds, the man pulled his hair and twisted his hand to control it. Not stopping there, the wife continued to carry many iron bars on her body.

Witnessing the whole scene of the father beating the mother, the two young children next to him could only cry loudly. Although not aware of what happened. However, Netizen still expressed concern that this will be an obsession throughout childhood. Causing them to experience "psychological obsessions", even forming "black marks" in their memories, nothing can compensate. Below the article, many accounts confided that they had experienced similar situations, so they were very sympathetic. In any situation, parents should remain calm and resolve conflicts in a civilized manner.

"Looking back at my own situation, I too was brought up in such a situation of domestic violence that I really hate my father who gave birth to me. Minh swore to himself that he would never become a human being. such violence, but it slowly ingrained in my subconscious when I didn't know it, my temper is sharp and somewhat violent. , do not dare to love anyone for two reasons: fear of falling in love with such a person and because of his tendency to be like that, fear of making people suffer.

"Who is right and who is wrong is not known, but domestic violence will have a very bad effect on children, that violent image will always exist in their heads."

"I've been through a time like this. I've had a meal like this almost every few days. The two scared children ran to the alley to call for help. When I made money, everything was more stable. Really saw the This scene is really painful, a part of me physically and mentally, but most of the children's psyche is affected."

6 consequences when parents argue in front of their children

Reduced cognitive performance: A 2013 study published in the journal Child Development found that the stress associated with living in a high-conflict home reduces children's cognitive performance. When parents stress frequently, children have more difficulty regulating attention and emotions. The ability to solve problems and absorb new information will also be affected.

Children become aggressive: Witnessing parents discord, even fighting, increases the risk of children treating others with hostility. When children see parents arguing in front of their children, children learn that fighting is the way to solve problems. From there children will imitate their parents and solve their personal problems by arguing and fighting. This aggressive behavior can get children into trouble at school, affecting their friendships.

Children at risk of depression: A research team from the University of Cambridge (UK) studied 238 people aged 15 to 18. They were asked to take a test to assess their ability to process emotional information. Accordingly, those with the lowest scores on the test were four times more likely to develop depression than the other people. Statistics show that these people often see their parents arguing for more than six months and before the age of 6.

Increased risk of teen substance abuse: Researchers have found that living in a home with high levels of conflict increases rates of smoking, drinking and marijuana use in young.

Children with physical problems: When they see their parents arguing, children feel sad and worried. This feeling may translate into a headache or an upset stomach. When upset, children do not want to eat or, conversely, eat too much to cope. Anxiety will make it difficult for children to sleep at night when they have to think about conflicts that have happened during the day.

A more negative view of life: Children raised in homes where parents are often at odds will form negative views about relationships in the family. Children are also more likely to see themselves in a negative way.

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