A good guy like Fat Cat is still not appreciated by girls, why?

Recently, social networks spread the tragic story of Fat Cat living in China. After learning about this 21-year-old man, many young Vietnamese people have learned lessons for themselves.

It is known that Fat Meo was originally a gamer. He knew a girl named Dam Truc, 27 years old, in Chongqing through playing games and had feelings for this person.

After a year and a half of falling in love online, the two met in real life. Just because Dam Truc said he didn't want a long-distance relationship, Fat Meo agreed to move to Chongqing to be closer to his lover.

But when Fat Cat arrived, Dam Truc said that because he didn't want the relationship to progress too quickly, he forced Fat Cat to move out alone in a small room.

Even though his situation is not very well off, Fat Cat still tries to "plow" rented games every day, living frugally to save money to send to his girlfriend. During the period of knowing each other for more than two years, the young man actively "played" games to earn money to serve his lover's hobbies and needs. The total amount of money he provided for the girl was estimated at up to 510,000 people. currency (nearly 1.8 billion VND). However, all the guy received was indifference and coldness from his girlfriend.

Although the two had planned to register their marriage in May 2024, Dam Truc continuously made excuses to break up. After many unsuccessful attempts to hold on, on April 11, Fat Meo transferred 66,666 yuan (about 239 million VND) to the girl and placed an order for 760 flowers symbolizing 760 days of love at his flower shop. opened for Dam Truc, but the girl was still indifferent, and in the end Fat Cat left.

The story between Fat Cat and his lover, after being widely shared on social networks, attracted the attention of the online community and made many people sad. From this story, some people have related to real life, where there are many good guys like Fat Cat but are not appreciated by girls to find out what is the reason why Dam Truc is indifferent and cold. .

There are many reasons for this:

Lack of understanding and appreciation: Some girls may be used to being cared for and pampered, so they take it for granted and do not appreciate what they have. They are easily attracted to mysterious, flashy "bad boys" outside without seeing the value of kind, sincere guys like Fat Cat.

Wrong selection standards: Some girls set too high standards for their boyfriends, focusing on appearance and material things without paying attention to personality and inner values. They ignore good guys like Fat Cat just because they don't have flashy looks or wealth.

Blindness in love: Some girls can be blind in love and lose their reason. They are easily blinded by the sweet promises or romantic gestures of "bad boys", leading to hurt and disappointment.

Fat Cat's story is a warning to girls in love:

Appreciate what you have: Don't take your lover's concerns and sacrifices for granted. Appreciate and acknowledge what they have done for you.

Don't set too high standards: Look at your boyfriend objectively, focusing on personality and internal values rather than appearance or material things.

Love with reason: When loving, be alert and wise. Don't let promises or romantic gestures blind you and make you lose yourself.

Besides, the story is also a message to good guys like Fat Cat:

Love yourself: Take time for yourself, take care of yourself both physically and mentally. When you love yourself, you will be confident and attract people worthy of your love.

Seek help when needed: When having difficulty in love, seek help from family, friends or a psychologist. They will help you have an objective view and give you useful advice.

Life has no shortage of good guys like Fat Cat, but they are not always appreciated by girls. Hopefully, through this story, each person will have the right perspective on love and how to cherish those who love them.

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