Siblings change gender, from brothers to sisters, parents' attitude is shocking!

"Mrs. Mu made a mistake" - that's the witty saying that sisters Tung Kim (born in 1991) and Binh Nhi said when talking about their gender. Tung Kim was originally a boy, but has now transformed into a woman. Binh Nhi is a girl and has now transitioned to male.

From brother and sister, Tung Kim and Binh Nhi have become two sisters. Kim said that at the age of 3, while attending kindergarten, she realized there was something different about herself. During recess, when playing with friends, Kim often chooses to play female characters. Kim did not know clearly about her gender identity at that time, she just felt that she was not like her friends.

As for Nhi, even though she is a girl, since she was little, she has loved playing superheroes, wearing boxers, camouflage pants, etc. Every time after bathing, her mother lets Nhi wear a dress, but he struggles and cries to take it off. go out. The older Nhi gets, the more she looks at her sister, the more she understands that she also needs to find her gender.

When she had access to the internet, Kim learned and gradually realized her true self. Kim began to change slowly, letting her hair grow long, growing her nails, and shaving her legs.

Once she understood who she was, Kim also realized the feelings hidden deep in Nhi's heart. At first when Kim asked, Nhi denied. But one time, Kim asked: "Do you like girls?", Nhi did not answer but just replied: "So you like boys, right?".

Neither Kim nor Nhi had an official coming out to their families, but looking at the two sisters, not only their parents but also their relatives understood. Kim's father gradually accepted the truth.

He said: "I don't know how to comfort, I only know how to calmly accept, without yelling or nagging. I want my child to be natural and comfortable at home, to have the last refuge, which is the father." As for Ms. Tran Thi Tham (54 years old), Kim and Binh's mother, she cried a lot and wanted to commit suicide when she saw that her two children wanted to change their gender.

Kim's family had to face a lot of criticism: "There are many people who name our family's case: "Transmissible disease, transmitted from older brother to younger brother." Or there are those who say is karma". But most of all, Kim and Nhi both want to live their true selves.

Kim decided to have gender reassignment surgery when she realized that her inner self and outer appearance needed to be similar. Kim quietly went for surgery without informing her parents. When she returned, everything was done. Kim knew what she did was wrong, but she had no other choice.

Knowing that Kim was transgender, Ms. Tham was even more heartbroken. With no way to convince her mother to understand, Kim started letting her watch programs and attend events of people from the LGBT community. From here, Mrs. Tham gradually understood and loved her children more. At a program, Nhi also officially came out to her mother. After this time, Nhi started going to the gym to develop her muscles, and brought her same-sex girlfriend home to introduce her to her family.

Currently, Kim is a photo model, dancer and teacher at a children's art center in Hai Phong City. Kim is very hardworking, passionate, and dedicated to her work. She makes many people admire her for her versatility and dynamism.

Over time, Kim becomes more and more beautiful, softer, and more feminine. Kim's personal page has nearly 19 thousand followers. Every day, she posts many moments of her daily life, going to work, going out with friends. Being a talkative and funny person, people feel that Kim's life is always happy and vibrant.

Occasionally, Kim still receives unflattering comments about gender and transgender issues, and she is not afraid to respond frankly to those comments.

The female model also confided that she is still single and on the path to finding the true love of her life.

While Kim is active on Facebook, Nhi is much more secretive. In mid-2023, in a report on VTV4, Nhi had just performed a chest surgery to gradually perfect her male body. In the report, this young man lies on a hospital bed and is well taken care of by his father.

Kim and Nhi's father confided that not having the opportunity to accompany Kim to Thailand for important gender reassignment surgery is something he has always worried about. So when Nhi had surgery, he wanted to be by her side to encourage, care for, and help her complete her unfinished dream.

Kim's father added that no matter who his children are, he still hopes to call them like before. And Kim hopes that when she finds true love and becomes a bride, then her father will no longer call her Tung but will call her "baby Kim".

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