Loving each other for 2 years, the girl was rejected by her boyfriend's educated family because she was pregnant

"People say that it's good to keep saying bad things, but everyone will know of the baby's arrival sooner or later, so I decided to say it. There will certainly be different opinions but the baby is not guilty, the fault is caused by me and her friend."

The story of "eating rice first" with consequences is no longer a rare thing, but not every girl is lucky enough to have a perfect wedding. The problem of "pregnancy before marriage" is a very normal thing in life development.

Do not equate the support of a loose lifestyle, having children before marriage of today's young people, however, we must see the positive aspects of having children before marriage. Recently, a girl named VHK shared her sad story, when she got pregnant but was rejected by her boyfriend and his whole family.

"I WILL BE HAPPY BUT IT WAS THE END OF A 2 YEAR LOVE

When I write lines like this, I think I will be the one to blame, for not keeping myself to let this happen. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. While we got to know each other, I didn't post it on Facebook, but both sides' families, friends and people around me knew.

On May 23, I had symptoms of pregnancy, so I went for a checkup. At this time, you are still in Quang Binh but said that you are busy with work, so you go alone and as a result, you are 5 weeks pregnant. When I informed her, she met with me to discuss, both of them 'agree to raise the child' and will notify the family.

But by the evening of that day, she went to Hanoi on family business and she texted me that she was tired and intended to give up the baby. On May 25, she still didn't tell her family and told me that she didn't want to affect her mother, because she was busy with many things, so she didn't want her mother to know. And texting my mom saying 'I'm sorry, I don't want the baby right now...'

Right after that, I also texted her mother to apologize for what we did and also hope that if she has already decided to leave, don't beg me to quit or say anything more, the rest is left to me. decided, but her mother also did not respond (because her mother is in Hanoi, so I cannot meet in person).

On May 29, she went back to Quang Binh to solve it, I thought she would solve it to see how it was reasonable to raise the baby, but no, about it, she still chose to give up and within 6 days it happened. When the incident happened, her family remained silent, no one contacted me or my family.

On May 31, I went to have an ultrasound to see if the baby had a fetal heart and embryo, but then I found out that the other place had a wrong ultrasound, actually the baby is already 8 weeks old with a heart and embryo, not 5 weeks (this time she also followed and also saw the baby and the baby's heart beat).

I told her to think again because the pregnancy is already grown but she still used the excuse that she wanted to be good for the future of the two of them later, just starting to get a job, no money, no time, I can't have children at this time, and that's why my family borrows billions of money from banks to invest in land, so I don't want my mother to have to take care of my life...

The family is educated, the mother used to be a teacher, and the son was a civil servant, but he made such an unintentional decision. After 10 days, her family was still silent, from her mother, father, sister, family decided to call her mother, and received a sentence 'she said that she is immature so she does not want to have a baby now. '.

On June 3, their father decided to meet her face-to-face, but the answer was still 'assuming she abandoned the baby and her family won't accept the baby later'.

People say that if you have a good story, you can keep it when you bring up a bad story, but everyone will know of the baby's appearance sooner or later, so I decided to say it. Surely there will be many different opinions but the baby is not guilty, the fault is caused by me and her.

I still think she will be a good father, protect and give the baby a complete family, but if she decides like that, her fatherhood will no longer exist, so everything about the baby will be the same. the decision. I'm sorry everyone..."

Some netizens' comments: "This female friend is also in a predicament, if she doesn't accept a sentence, she'll stop it, keep going around doing nothing. Just take care of the child, what are you afraid of! His family the other is unlucky", "I feel sorry for you, you chose the wrong person to trust... Wish you and the baby healthy", "I still don't understand that the family next to him didn't want to keep the baby, just try to find it with him. What's the point of contacting him? Pressure him to get married and then come back happy? If the girlfriend herself already wants to keep the child, then just ignore the other guy, cut off contact as soon as possible "...

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