Vietnamese wife was "taken away to heaven" by her foreign husband because she was addicted to clicking on the phone while eating

The fact that the Dutch man "did his hands" with his Vietnamese wife, the reason why the wife constantly looked at the phone made many people think. Is it possible that technology is separating people from each other.

Lam Dong provincial police arrested Kenter Jaco Bus Johansen, 63, Dutch nationality, living in Da Lat, Lam Dong province - the suspect of killing his wife 10 years younger. They got married in 2010.

At the police station, this man confessed that on the day of the incident, he and his wife and stepdaughter of his wife and some other people went to eat. At the restaurant, the husband repeatedly reminded her when Mrs. D was constantly looking at her phone, not focusing on the meal. This man left before the couple had an argument.

About 2 hours later, when Mrs. D. returned home, the two continued to argue. At the peak, Mr. Johannes could not help but get angry and took the life of Mrs. D.

The incident is constantly being shared on social networks, somewhere with a reminder "be careful with your phone".

The perpetrator will have to pay for the act of taking other people's lives, but the incident once again warns of a crack in marriage and family relationships stemming from the use of technology, which everyone is now facing. must face to face.

Before that, there have been many cases of husband harming his wife related to using the phone.

In Can Tho, the "fake husband" Tran Khanh Van was sentenced to 15 years in prison. During the time of living with a woman of the same age and having two children together, the subject expressed discomfort and suspicion when his wife often dialed the phone and spoke harshly.

Suspecting his wife to have an affair, out of affection for him, one day at noon in May 2020, when he saw his wife lying on the hammock pressing the phone, Van had an intention to harm his wife and then end his life. Thanks to the people around them discovered and saved in time, the two survived the crisis...

One thing in common between these cases is that the "crash" in the marriage begins with technology taking over life, the presence of a "new family member" which is the phone. The feeling that the opposite person, especially a spouse, is focused on the phone anytime, anywhere, even while eating, chatting... is not pleasant. It's a feeling of not being respected, not being cared for... And not everyone can afford to overcome that uncomfortable feeling, like the perpetrators in the cases above.

There have been many studies showing the impact of technology on marital relationships. Not only in the husband and wife relationship, the story of "focusing on the phone, forgetting everything" also affects many other relationships, such as between parents and children, between friends, between colleagues. ..

The image between a meal, a meeting, a chat... that everyone focuses on their phones has become all too familiar. There, parents don't listen to their children speak, children don't listen to their parents, friends don't hear each other talk...

Technological equipment was born with the purpose of connecting, making communication between people more convenient, people closer to each other. However, when dependent on technology, people push their loved ones further away...

A recent survey showed that, with more than 60 million users, Vietnam is the 18th country in the world in terms of the percentage of people using the Internet and is one of the 10 countries with the highest number of Facebook and YouTube users in the world. gender.

The average time spent using social networks in a day of Vietnamese youth is 7 hours, quite high compared to the region and the world. In addition to young people, the number of elderly people "addicted" to phones and social networks is no less competitive. Now, everywhere you look, you can see elderly people with phones surfing the net, watching TikTok, livestream...

Notably, some studies also show that most social network users do not understand how and limit the use of mobile technology devices.

Many people "lost", forgetting to warn when picking up the phone, it is likely that each person is putting their relationship between husband and wife, children, and friends down.

In a program for women in Ho Chi Minh City, a wife and mother asked how to keep family happiness from being affected by technology when everyone in the house is "noticing" their phones.

Psychologist Nguyen Thi Tam (Soul Viet Psychological Science Application Company) shared, each family needs to set out general principles in the use of technology devices. Family activities need common contexts and spaces such as eating, chatting, walking, etc., where members have to keep their phones elsewhere. Only in this way can we create bonds and avoid injuries and cracks in family relationships.

In addition, psychologists also emphasized that when entering marriage, each person needs to learn how to manage emotions, to avoid letting negative emotions lead to harmful behaviors to others.

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