41-year-old female doctor chooses a husband who meets 11 criteria: 1m8 tall, salary more than 3 billion, parents-in-law must have this!

A girl from China recently surprised and somewhat "shocked" many people when she revealed her criteria for choosing her "other half". It won't be worth mentioning, when she has 11 criteria that many people think are too strict and unrealistic.

Specifically, a woman named Lam (who has changed her name) is 41 years old, has a doctorate degree from a prestigious university, is still single and wants to get married.

According to Ms. Lam, she had a boyfriend and was in love for many years. After that, because her education was getting higher and higher, the two sides had little common voice in life, which led to a breakup. After that, she devoted all her time and mind to work and study.

Seeing her daughter getting older, her mother issued an ultimatum: "If you can't find anyone this year, don't go home." Under pressure from her family, she decided to go through dating and matchmaking to find a suitable object.

However, Ms. Lam also has 11 very high criteria for choosing a life partner that many people don't dare to approach after listening:

1. You must be from Shanghai city, ID card starts with ID of Shanghai 310.

2. 985 university degree (world-class project university in China).

3. Height more than 1m8.

4. Good-looking appearance, straight nose, white teeth, not bald, good eyesight, no glasses, no dark brown.

5. Annual salary after tax is not less than 1 million yuan (about 3.4 billion dong).

6. There are more than 3 houses over 3 bedrooms in Shanghai, be it commercial residences or detached villas but must be built after 2011.

7. Own car with a market price of not less than 1 million yuan (about 3.4 billion VND).

8. Born between 1980 and 1982.

9. Know how to do housework.

10. Never been married.

11. Requirements for the other party's parents: Must have a pension, the sum of the two of them is not less than 10,000 yuan (more than 34 million dong), must also be from Shanghai city with ID number on the ID card starting with 310 .

Among these selection criteria, the issue of the number of people's identity cards made many people stir. Accordingly, if the ID numbers start with 310, then they are basically Shanghainese people, real locals, not immigrants.

After seeing the criteria, Chinese netizens were really shocked. They analyze each issue separately. The first is real estate, in Shanghai every inch of land is golden, to meet the requirements of a female master, the man must be a billionaire. Millionaires also do not meet the above criteria.

The issue of identity card and claim of original Shanghainese is also quite unreasonable and somewhat too strict.

The remaining 9 other requirements, people do not discuss much, but netizens still think that it is really unreasonable when the female master is at the age of 41 and her beauty is not too much. At this time, her age and advanced degrees can sometimes be a disadvantage for her when choosing a husband.

So it seems that it's been a while since the search for a subject, and she still hasn't found anyone that matches her criteria.

Whatever you say, the standard to find someone to get married will be available to everyone. However, the person who sets the standard should also reflect on himself to come up with more appropriate criteria.

Previously, the study "Marriage and family values - The perspective of the young Vietnamese generation" published in the Journal of Family and Gender Studies showed that people aged 16-30 have the criteria to choose a common lover. Variables include: love, loyalty, good moral character, good manners, good looks, stable income, education, job, similar family conditions, etc.

However, this "set of criteria" of each person also needs to be appropriate. If we set the bar too high, even unrealistic, then we will probably never find the right person. Typically, the female doctor in the above story, 11 criteria must be said that it is too "difficult", and probably no one will be able to meet it. Although the female doctorate's achievements are excellent, she should also reflect on herself and her criteria for choosing a life partner. Everything has to be reasonable to get the desired result.

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