7th grade girl gives birth by herself in the bathroom | Since when did school sex become easy?

Recently, on January 12, Ms. Nguyen Thi Bay, Vice Principal of Vo Truong Toan Secondary School, Da Bac Commune (Chau Duc District, Ba Ria - Vung Tau) has just confirmed a student studying in grade 7. at this school gave birth to a baby weighing 2.5 kg in the family bathroom.

Accordingly, at about 3 o'clock on January 3, NNAT (grade 7 student) was at home with her biological mother and grandparents in Phuoc An village, Da Bac commune, when she gave birth to a baby. T. went into the family bathroom alone and gave birth to a baby girl. T. hugged the baby alone and then cut the umbilical cord with scissors.

At this time, hearing the sound of babies crying in the house, T.'s mother went out of the bedroom to find T. holding her baby. Right after that, T.'s family took T. and his child straight to H. Chau Duc Medical Center. After many days of postpartum treatment, mother and daughter T. were discharged home.

Ms. Nguyen Thi Bay said that T. is in grade 7 but is 15 years old (T. stayed for 2 years during primary school).

"The time when T. was pregnant was during the second semester of 6th grade. At that time, the school let students study online at home due to the influence of Covid-19. Despite being pregnant, T. still went to school and T. did not go to school for many days, so the teacher found out that T. missed school because of childbirth. T.'s family also hid this from the school, only saying that T. was sick and did not come to class. okay," Ms. Bay added.

On January 6, Da Bac Commune Police received information from people about TA, a 7th grader at Vo Truong Toan School, giving birth at home in Binh Son village. It is known that A. was pregnant, but the family did not find out about the incident until this girl gave birth. On the afternoon of January 12, the leader of Da Bac Commune People's Committee said that A. knew a young man through social networks. After that, the two sides made an appointment and went to a motel.

The commune leader said: "A. is pregnant but her family doesn't know, she still goes to school normally"

The locality visited the family and reported to Chau Duc district. The case is being investigated by the authorities

From the above story, one can see the reality of relationships early in school age and the fact that we live in a culture filled with topics about sex, from stories outside the cafe, to the most recent chapters. TV show, in the family, on social networks...

Earlier in early May 2019, public opinion stirred with the news that a male student in Phu Tho had made... 4 pregnant girlfriends. Phu Tho Provincial Police have verified and clarified and initially concluded that male student Bui Tien D. make 1 girlfriend pregnant, not 4. That is the case of Nguyen Thi Bich H., a student at Long Chau Sa High School. When Bui Tien D had sex with Nguyen Thi Bich H. leading to H. getting pregnant, D. under 16 years old and H. 14 years and 10 months.

Most recently, on September 21, in Thanh Hoa, Ms. Le Thi Yen - principal of the Secondary School in Tinh Gia town, Nghi Son town (Thanh Hoa) - said that she is D.MA (MA is a student of class 9B of the school). ) was 15 weeks pregnant in a state of confusion, anxiety and sadness when she had to leave school midway. MA's family said that around May 2020, MA went out to school with a group of friends from the same school. Recently, seeing MA has many unusual symptoms, the abdomen is getting bigger, so the family took it to a medical facility for examination. The ultrasound results showed that MA was 15 weeks pregnant. Through MA's story, she was forced to have sex by a male student from the same school during an outing with a group of friends in May 2020.

Severe consequences

Currently, education is still very popular in Vietnam. However, the vein has not been given enough attention. Statistics show that, by the end of 9th grade, about 10% of students have had sex. By the end of 12th grade, this figure is 39%. Among high school students who admitted to having sex. Up to 29.5% of boys said they did not use a condom in the last time they had sex.

Only 8% of female students said they used at least one form of "contraception". Worth mentioning, about 10% of high school students reported having had sex with 3 or more people. About 15% of the children used stimulants. Including alcohol and drugs in the last sex. Specifically, in the general event activities of the class and the school.

Why is sex at school age so blatant?

Firstly, parents are too afraid of early love

Parents were too afraid to fall in love early. Since then, she has always avoided sharing and educating her children about sex. The more forbidding parents are, the more children will only find love to be something very interesting. Chung wants to learn, explore.

Love is a fragile thing, but when it is forbidden, it flares up again. The children only see the parent's ban as a challenge for them to find each other. The more parents tell them not to love, the more passionately their children love. Chung se feels that only the other person is important and indispensable.

Instead of sharing everything with their parents, they act silently. During that process, because of avoidance, parents lose the opportunity to share, understand and equip their children with gender knowledge.

Second, young people have not been properly educated about sex and sexuality

Young people have not been properly educated about sex and sexuality. This is an inevitable consequence that follows the first cause. Because parents are far away from their children, they do not create a feeling of comfort and safety for their children to share their thoughts. Therefore, it is difficult for them to understand and educate their children at the right time.

From the place of love, it is easy for students to think that if they are in love, they must sleep together. In that process, students do it silently without their parents knowing or when they know, everything is lost.

According to the law, having sex with a child under the age of 16 will be punished. There have been many heartbreaking cases that happened when 17- and 18-year-old boys had sex with their 12- or 13-year-old lovers and then had to pay the price of 10-15 years in prison.

The root cause here is that students are not properly educated about sex and sexuality. Young people did not understand its meaning as well as the risks they could face. Young people should think impulsively. Meanwhile, they have nowhere to confide, share as well as learn the right experience and knowledge.

Third, students are given a boring life

We have been creating a boring life for students. At school as well as at home, teachers and parents only talk about learning. Parents are so focused on learning that they ignore the issue of comprehensive education for their children.

Young children lack a healthy play environment. Since then, the children have spent their free time in love affairs and dangerous pleasures at the motel. In addition, the lack of attention to physical education is also a part of the cause of early sex. The reason is that sports can release nerve inhibition. "However, this issue has been overlooked, not given proper attention by parents."

Sex in school causes but harmful?

But the danger of two ghosts having sex in the school caused a lot of trouble. However, this tooth has been granted many times. However, so far, there is still no method to fix it.

The early relationship between children in a remote area is flooded with topics about sex. From the story outside the cafe, the TV shows. Until the stories in the family, on social networks...

For couples in this age group, one-third of girls reported that they had been pressured by their partner to send nude photos; semi-nude. Or take close-ups of sensitive parts as a way to prove love.

According to studies in Vietnam, the rate of adolescent abortion is increasing. Currently, we are on the 2nd letter from Southeast Asia. As well as being in the top 10 in the world for young people. A lot of bans after pregnancy, but the medical facilities are undercover, the people are safe to come to the placenta and pregnant. Investigate infertile - humiliating or dying. There are cases that after being released images or clips online, have experienced psychological trauma leading to suicidal behavior. Due to the passion for love, the study of the students is still limited. This is a big deal to my children's future.

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