Husband uses "hot" photos and clips to threaten "third people" to maintain a wrong relationship

Coming to the third person, Ms. A (26 years old) in Binh Duong recalled the time she got married at the age of 18. She was 17 years old then, he was 2 years older. He is talented, diligent, knows how to care to make her fall in love. His family supported the marriage, but her mother was worried because they were both still too young. Because she loved so much, she still refused to marry because "if there is suffering in the future, I will bear it on my own".

After giving birth to her first child, she was at odds with her mother-in-law over economic issues. The mother-in-law wants the couple to give all their earnings to her to keep. The couple moved out separately. When the child was 1 year old, Ms. A discovered that her husband had a third person.

She said: "Once, I opened his personal computer to let my children play games. I discovered that he created a new Zalo account and texted with a strange girl. They called each other sweet husband and wife. I checked asked, he immediately showed her social media account to me, saying that they just had a crush. Because I broke the computer in anger, he apologized, vowed to end this relationship."

What surprised her was that his mother and friends all told the other girl that he was unmarried. Sister A asked her mother-in-law to find out that he forced her to say so. She loved her son to "defy morality", covering for him to have an affair.

The other girl did not know that the man she knew was married. She texted an apology, promised to leave him. Since being discovered by his wife, he has spent more time with his family, creating the perfect husband cover, but still secretly meeting his ex. When she returned to her hometown because there was an anniversary at home, he took the girl home the whole time.

"I returned to my hometown a few days before to prepare for the wedding. When I went back to my house, my neighbor asked me if I had a sister because she saw that he had brought a little girl into the house. At that time, she came to my house to return the borrowed things, accidentally. I saw him and a girl lovingly putting on masks for each other. I showed the girl before and the neighbor confirmed it was the girl. I was angry when I found out that the two of you were in the couple's room. At that time, I wanted to do something foolish, but thinking about my child was too young. I left, he begged, and then I soft-heartedly returned to him," said Ms. A.

One more time "open eyes and closed eyes" to ignore her husband, however, Ms. A gradually lost faith. Two weeks later, she checked her laptop and found an email she sent him. She contacted the girl and discovered a "heavenly" story. The girl said that before, when she knew each other, her husband often took pictures and filmed when the two of them were intimate. At that time, the girl wanted to stop, her husband threatened to post it online, if she did not continue to go to the hotel with him. She tried to contact her for help, but he discovered and blocked the number. She was silent before the story, clearly seeing the badness and evil of her husband.

She decided to stand out to remove and rescue the third person. She talked to him but he still refused.

"I feel sorry for that girl because she was a victim from the beginning, I didn't know he had a family. When he was still deceiving, I took the child and left. I walked for 3 km, my tears were flowing. I filed for divorce and wanted to end this marriage I gave him the form, changed my phone number, and found a job, changed my place of residence.After 3 months of meeting in court, he did not agree to divorce and wanted to win custody of the children, but the court ruled that I had full custody of the children," said Ms. A in a calm voice.

After 6 years of divorce, sometimes her ex-husband called to ask to see her children, hoping that she would "restore her old love", but Ms. A insistently refused. The marriage was quick, leaving her with a feeling of regret for getting married at a young age, causing her to step over "once a boat". Becoming a strong single mother, earning money to raise her children, take care of herself, she felt like she was "resurrected". A shared: "We women need to be independent and financially independent, whether married or not, so as not to depend on anyone."

At the end of the program, Ms. A refused to turn on the camera because she did not want her acquaintances to know this sad story. She confessed to the program to share her experiences with other women, especially single mothers with similar circumstances.

Listening to the story, Dr. To Nhi A gave advice and encouraged the young girl: "When we have financial capacity, we will easily make decisions, not panic or let others easily. That's the core value of economic autonomy. When we're in the middle of a life-changing decision, we don't want to have to utter the two words "what if".

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