The boy was challenged by the girl's family to marry him for more than a hundred million, and his lover even said a sad sentence and the ending

A young man was upset because his girlfriend's family challenged him to marry him beyond the allowable conditions. In the end, he decided to stop the wedding until the two sides found common ground.

The wedding season is bustling, everywhere we see solemn and solemn weddings, and unintentionally, the bride's family's wedding challenge story also receives a lot of attention. Recently, a young man went online to share his own case, causing the online community to split into two opposing opinions.

Specifically, this guy said that he and his lover had been together for a year and were talking about getting married. What is worth mentioning here is that the bride's family challenged her to marry 50 million VND in cash and 1 tael of gold and the groom's family did not meet the conditions so they did not agree.

After that, the young man discussed it with his girlfriend and received an answer that was not as expected. In the end, he had to postpone the wedding until he had a common voice to continue. The girl immediately expressed her displeasure and blamed the groom's family, "Everyone in my family is like that, and there are only a few people in my family who are like that."

At the present time, the increased demand for weddings leads to an increase in gold prices, so including the amount of gold and the 50 million that the bride's family requests, the boy must prepare at least 120 million VND to marry his wife. Below the posted article, netizens are divided into two camps, one side believes that the girl's family should reconsider because the wedding offer is too high and the groom's family cannot afford to meet it.

However, on the opposite side, most people have the opinion that if they are willing to get married, they must accept the request of the bride's family, and this is also a matter of the bride's "face". If you don't have the conditions to ask for marriage, you should stop, because then it will be difficult for both of you to get together because you are worried about food, clothing, and money.

Not long ago, a 35-year-old man in Shanxi province (China) also had to cancel his wedding because he was 30,000 yuan (100 million VND) short of the bride's family's request. Notably, after the marriage was annulled, he used the 168,000 yuan (more than 560 million VND) he saved to travel to more than 40 cities.

This guy, using the pen name Quach Hieu, told the story of breaking up with his girlfriend after nearly a year of dating. According to Jiupai News, he was exhausted when he could not meet the engagement gift of up to 190,000 yuan (more than 634 million VND) that his bride's family offered.

"I really had no money and I started to feel disappointed," Quach Hieu told Jiupai News, adding that he felt relieved to cancel the wedding.

It is known that Hieu's monthly income is 5,000 yuan (16.6 million VND). To meet the initial wedding challenge amount from the bride's family, he borrowed 20,000 yuan (66.7 million VND) from a friend and used his personal savings. In addition, his parents said they would pay the deposit to buy the property after the wedding, as long as he could repay the loan.

The turning point came in May, when Quach Hieu's fiancee asked for an additional 30,000 yuan (more than 100 million VND). Instead of being angry, he just felt helpless and decided to end the relationship and use all his savings to travel.

"The world is big and I want to see it. Instead of going into debt because of marriage, why not enjoy the beauty of things around us?", he said.

When asked about his opinion on the custom of challenging the bride's family, Quach Hieu expressed: "It's unfair, but most men will still follow the custom because they have no other choice."

The story of the young man mentioned above seems to add to the ongoing debate in China about the custom of asking the bride's family to marry her. "He wouldn't be happy if he borrowed money to get married so I think he made the right decision," one account wrote. "He's taking care of himself. Awesome," another said.

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