The brother went on the livestream to say that he was divorcing his wife, providing for the third chil.d of 250 million, still being kicked by the bo.y

Recently, social media has been buzzing about a guy named M.H.H. of "accusing" a gir.l of "surpassing" him. However, besides the main drama, what interests many people the most is the spending table that this guy has for his girlfriend.

Accordingly, the bo.y made a spreadsheet, clearly stating the spent amounts along with the detailed amount. Within more than 1 month, the total amount that he spent on his girlfriend was nearly 250 million VND. From large expenses such as cosmetology, buying diamond rings,... to smaller amounts of mone.y such as buying clothes and taking photos are all recorded in detail by him.

Most notably, netizens pay attention to expenses such as: "mone.y for piercing", "fraudulent transfer",... Besides, there was also some mone.y up to 30 million VND that he transferred to his girlfriend but did not know what she used it for.

According to the owner of the post, the guy said that during the time of falling in love, because he was too "lukewarm", the other party accepted whatever he wanted. When the relationship had problems, the gir.l expressed a decisive attitude, so he calculated the amount spent to prove it. In addition, he said that this is only a matter of mone.y, not taking into account other issues such as family and life,... He tries to take care of everything and completely.

It is known that at the time of sharing the story, the man and his wife divorced.

When posting this spending list on social networks, the guy was immediately condemned. Many people think that posting personal stories online, especially related to financial matters, is a bad thing to do. Besides, there are also many people who suspect that the man "creates content" to sell because it is difficult to expos.e the fact that he ate clumsily and was betrayed by his lover to his ex-wife. Currently, the story is still causing a stir on social media.

"Clumsy eating" is an intriguing topic. The antics of couples cheating on each other have captivated audiences from the early days of storytelling to modern romantic comedies and hit podcasts by personal relationship experts.

So it's relatively understandable that a psychotherapist specializing in intimate relationships turns to author a book on the subject. "Why are we eating clumsily?" Juliet Rosenfeld asks the question in the introduction to the book Affairs.

This is her second book, which focuses on fidelity through an analysis of five relationships that take place in real life. Her first book, The State of Disbelief, delved into Rosenfeld's grieving experience after the deat.h of her husband Andrew.

Although Rosenfeld has been a psychologist with many clients for the past 15 years, she doesn't use their material in her book. Instead, in 2021, she posted ads in multiple British and American publications looking for participants in her project.

Participants will talk about their clumsy eating, an aspect of behavior that is rarely discussed, and their identities will be "strictly anonymized." The five stories, from a man visiting his mistres.s minutes after his wife gave birth, to another who left his wife and autistic chil.d to go to a colleague are all identity protected, however, they still show a significant similarity in nature.

At the ag.e of 60, "Professor M", a scholar in the field of science and engineering, has never been interested in any man other than her partner for 25 years. She had a fulfilling and interesting life. The couple shared friends, had similar interests and interests, and played a sport that they both enjoyed.

However, a chance encounter at the conference with a man she once knew sparked a passionate love affair. This emotion made her confused, worried, and even depressed both physically and mentally. She had to go to the therapist, usually four times a week, and the total number of sessions had reached hundreds.

Conversations with the therapist, which also mentioned her childhood, helped Professor M get her family relationship back on track (family feelings "deepened, became something more loving"). She also stressed to Rosenfeld that "eating clumsily" — "not just about our present, but also about our past."

However, The Guardian columnist Susie Mesure said Rosenfeld had not pushed the limits of her imagination to better dialogue with the characters. The conversations between Rosenfeld and Neil, a senior partner at a leading law firm who is cheating on his wife Serena in favor of a much younger mistres.s, Magdalena, are particularly rigid.

Rosenfeld seems to be implying that Magdalene is just a replacement for Serena when he mentions Neil saying that he "only has se.x with Magdalene when his wife is not at home", however, this detail is overshadowed in the dialogue.

Even so, Rosenfeld still manages to convey the true feelings of insiders through compelling storytelling, especially when they share about the paths that led to their extramarital relationships.

Rosenfeld intersperses these stories with references to a variety of psychoanalytic theories and texts, such as Simon Freud's essay on grief and depression, one of the works called "the key to understanding loss."

Despite using so many specialized theories, Rosenfeld interprets it very clearly. The author writes: "Freud spoke of replacements, and in Eleanor's case, I believe she came to Nick to fill her nostalgia for Mina. Nick is also a substitute for the kind of friendship that Siobhan didn't have when he was rejected by his father as a chil.d."

While Affairs is an interesting book, Rosenfeld's view that the roots of most "clumsiness" are "related to childhood and adulthood" are not new. There is more that can be done to elicit new contributions from her work.

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