The heartless mother separated the twins to save on living expenses, but unexpectedly had to pay a high price!

Just because she wanted to save on the family's living expenses, the mother cruelly separated her two children so that this woman would have to live in regret for the rest of her life. This is also considered a warning to parents and their children.

The above story is the situation of Ms. Vuong from China when she had twin daughters. Because of the pressure and stress of life in the city, the couple decided to send one child back to their hometown to live with their grandmother. Families only have the opportunity to reunite during summer or Tet holidays. After a long time, the family's financial situation improved, the mother decided to take her daughter to live with her.

When they grew up, both daughters were accepted into college with a score difference of only 5 points. However, different living environments have created big differences in their personalities and lives. Because her younger sister lives in the city, she often participates in school activities and has won many awards. After graduating from university, she found a good job with a high salary. The older sister, who returned home, lived a reserved and self-conscious life, so she made few friends during her time at university and had many difficulties in finding a job. In the end, she could only find a low-paying job in a small town.

The older sister's low self-esteem and introspection largely stem from the fact that she had to live away from her parents since she was young. She always felt abandoned and lacked love and care compared to her younger brother.

Furthermore, the rural environment, which is more deprived than the city, also makes her feel that she cannot compare with her younger brother. This is also increased by the difference in parenting styles of grandparents and parents.

Seeing the huge difference between her two children, the mother inevitably feels regretful about her past decisions.

Like the case mentioned above, because of the difficult financial situation, Ms. Vuong's family had to take one of the two children back to her hometown to stay with her grandmother. This has led to a big difference in living environment between the two sisters.

Not only does it cause differences in personality, but it also creates a mental distance between them. A child sent back to his hometown often feels slighted and unfair, and may develop resentment and resentment toward his parents.

Accordingly, in some families with twins, parents may like one of them because of their appearance or the order in which they were born. The neglected or less attentive child will blame the parents.

Lack of attention for a long time not only makes children hate their siblings, it also makes them feel inferior and look down on themselves. Besides, a child who is pampered more may develop arrogance, selfishness, and contempt for others.

In a family with many children, any child who is not cared for or loved will lose hope from their relatives. Children will not learn to love themselves, will not learn to trust others, and will not even feel the value of their own existence. Parental favoritism is a form of mental abuse for children.

Don't favor any child, let them have equal opportunities to develop. Parents should build corresponding educational plans based on their children's different personalities and interests. At the same time, encourage children to develop their own strengths and talents, helping them become independent, confident and responsible people.

In families with twins, parents must learn how to coordinate the relationship between their children and listen to their children's opinions and needs. When conflicts and problems arise, parents should understand the facts objectively and make judgments based on right and wrong, rather than solely based on age and preferences.

Like the story above, due to financial conditions, Ms. Vuong and her husband had to send one child to her grandmother's house in the countryside. Therefore, the living environments of the two children are very different.

This not only leads to personality differences but also creates psychological distance between the two children. The child who is taken away will feel that he or she has been treated unfairly, and may develop resentment toward his or her parents.

Even though they know that it depends on the circumstances, when planning to have children, couples must anticipate hardships, it is best for their children to be raised by themselves. Grandparents are different generations, have different thinking and habits. It is parents who take the most comprehensive care of their children, giving them a healthy body and a happy spirit.

Therefore, parents should try to bring their children close to each other and create a bond with the family. In case of separation from their children, parents need to regularly contact and show concern so that their children do not feel abandoned.

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