Abandoned by a Western guy on Tinder when she was pregnant, the girl decided to boldly cause controversy

Recently, a 30-year-old girl shared her love story on an online forum, causing fierce controversy among netizens. She met a foreign boyfriend, became pregnant, and then faced a series of difficult days deciding whether to keep or leave her child. What makes anyone who reads the story have to keep it in mind is her innermost feelings about her feelings, her personality and her open and positive way of thinking.

Tinder love affair ends with a fetus

Quoting the girl's story that is taking the internet by storm:

"Through the ultrasound room, people said 'having a fetal heart', I already found it easy to hate, but when I took the result sheet and gave it to the nurse, it said 3 words '6 weeks old' and I dropped the paper, The paper fell to the ground just like in the movies, and then I walked out of the clinic door blankly, the nurse grabbed my hand and said, "Are you okay?" I said I needed to go out and sit for a while. After a while, he said: "You sit and sit but you're still 6 weeks old!" The doctor just appeared at that time, I asked what if I quit, but what if I kept it, it was his turn to bully me: "I don't. OK if with you, I have 1 minute and 30 seconds to think, not talk much"!

I always drive the car home.

You and Tao met through Tinder, you teach English in Vietnam to spend the rest of your time pursuing your passion for writing. I spent 2 days thinking about it and then I asked you out. When I got home, I dared to call and drop a baby bomb over the phone. Your reaction at that time only revolved around my thoughts. You make a list of reasons why you should quit, but leave it to me to decide. On that list I see things like I'm young, my career is very bright, or my ability to conceive after the age of 30 is only about two or a few percent can be cured, but If you don't have a natural baby, you can have a baby in a test tube... I just remembered after reading this, you haven't talked about it since the beginning, what do you think about this?

'A baby isn't what you're looking for,' you say. Tao asked, but you do love me, don't you?

'I wish i did... - I wish you could' were the last words of that phone call, and ours.

Through the disappointment, I feel very happy, happy because I realize that I am mature enough to understand and forgive you, respect your decision in my decision. I'm happy because thanks to you, I remember the moment when the doctor scolded me, gave me exactly 1 minute and 30 seconds to keep or let go, my stomach tightened like that, the kind of pain was strange, right at that point, I knew I had to keep this baby, and I didn't have to explain to you the tiny connection I had that day in the clinic again. I'm happy because after your words, I'm even more certain of my decision to keep it because I know from now on, I won't need to be associated with another man to take the baby away from me, happy because it will always be my own companion, forever my, worthy of all my love. After that night, when I woke up from a mother, I was ready to become a mother."

The girl's post quickly attracted the attention of the online community. Among the tens of thousands of comments, the contrast of opinions is also clearly expressed.

Some people think that the story has a beautiful ending when the girl decides to keep the baby, forgive her ex-boyfriend in a civilized way. Moreover, the girl is very independent and self-reliant in her thoughts. It can be said that most of the comments show support for the main character's point of view and positive attitude to life, that in any situation, we will eventually find an optimistic view to Take that as a fulcrum and be happy with your decision.

In addition, many comments criticized the roundabout, cowardly attitude of the foreign guy and the young girl's easy and loose lifestyle. Although at the end of the story, there is no conflict between the two, but the way she handles it will also make the child suffer a lot in the future. And you, what do you think about this story?

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