A mother's stormy confession: "Children commit s.uicide, people say they're stupid, but I think they're older than us."

"They are not impulsive. To be able to come to such a painful decision, they must have prepared for a long time, meticulously and thoroughly, slowly but decisively."

After the incident of a 16-year-old m.ale s.tudent who threw himself from the 28th floor, a mother's confidant post also caused a storm on social networks because it made readers think more and lower. Accordingly, the mother wrote: "Today, the son of an old friend of mine committed suicide! No warning signs. No goodbye. No last words. Layers of torments. surround the people who stay.

That why? Perhaps no one understands why a 16-year-old b.oy chooses to give up this life and leave forever.

In the Diary of 14, the b.oy wrote, When I was in 6th grade, I had my first love, my mother discovered that I liked N, she read the pieces of letters that N wrote on her desk, she went to N's house and asked her parents to N review how to teach children. I can't remember how my first love ended.

Only after that, the two never looked at each other again even though they were in the same class until high school. Later, my mother asked why I was so far away from her, why didn't I confide in her? Why? Since I already know so much, I never have the right to know anything more.

After the funeral, on the way home, I couldn't help but think about it. Children who commit s.uicide, people say they are stupid but I see them as old before us - parents who think they are mature and always right! They are not impulsive. To be able to come to such a painful decision, they must have prepared for a long time, meticulously and thoroughly, slowly but decisively.

After all, what are people like us doing with each other's lives? Are you sure that your c.hild is living the happy life he wants? Do you ask him every day, what makes you sad today, and what makes you happy?

My sister's niece, I've seen her ask her mother Do you have any other questions to ask me? When my sister said, how many points did you get in school today?

Granted, I always give you the best, but do I ever care what you really need? I don't know what to think anymore. Everything is like a vicious circle, like a dark cloud clinging to the heart. Heavy and oppressive.

When I lay down to hold my c.hild at night, I asked my husband: What do you want your c.hild to do in the future? How do you want me to love you? My husband said: I can't do anything or love anyone. As long as it's fun!.

Right! I will teach them how to think properly, how to protect themselves, how to react, how to respond, how to treat others, how to acquire knowledge in life. I will not teach him to play with people like this, love people like that, what to study, what to do...

I will listen to you first. If he really wants me to advise, I will. I asked my husband more, if our c.hild later becomes naughty for objective reasons, will you hate it? Hate for being born and raised and then turned away from me?

My husband asked me again: Oh he asked me to give birth, but I put so much pressure on him? He doesn't like publicity. He believes that his c.hild is never spoiled. But if it disappoints me, I have to accept it. It gave him its entire childhood, letting him experience an unprecedented joy and happiness. I'm grateful for it! Don't expect, don't need much!.

Well, as a parent, who doesn't put some dreams and ambitions on their children's shoulders. But please entrust, not force. I just want my c.hild to be strong enough in the world. Life is like a branch of grass that has been crushed after a storm, still reaching out to the wind.

Forget about forcing your c.hild to do this and that. Please teach me to be frank, teach me how to express what I think, how to say for myself what I want, and if allowed, what I will do. Then I'll smile and say to myself, why didn't I realize it sooner?"

Faced with a thought or a teen's s.uicide attempt, people should not be dismissive, but on the contrary must let them know that they care deeply about this issue and are ready to help them overcome difficulties. difficult, more confident in life.

To build a happy family, parents should spend more time caring, talking with their children more, listening to their thoughts and feelings. Do not impose academic achievement on your c.hild, do not set too high expectations for your c.hild. Allocate time to study and play appropriately.

Teach children many life skills, life values so that they always look towards good things. Help them reduce their psychological distress by changing the stressful environment, enlisting the support of family members and classmates. Help them understand that each person can have a legitimate sadness, everyone around has their own sadness but there is a way to deal with it.

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