Quynh Dao - A life full of tragedy: 3 husbands, accepted to be a minor and unsuccessfully attempted suicide

The more illustrious the literary career, the more unhappy the female singer's love and private life. Few people know that the painful love stories that bring tears to many people come from what she has experienced in real life.

Referring to Quynh Dao, people will immediately remember a talented female artist of Chinese literature with many masterpieces accompanying the years such as Hoan Chau Cach Cach, Separation River, A glimpse of a dream, ... Thanks to the popularity of the novels written by her and her natural business ability, Quynh Dao's career has always made many people admire. However, in stark contrast to her illustrious career, Quynh Dao's private life and love story is the greatest misfortune in this female author's life. Not everyone knows that she committed suicide because she was forbidden to love an elderly teacher or accepted to wait 16 years before she could come to her lover.

Her fortune is dozens of massive novels with many works that have been adapted into films to create names for many Chinese stars such as Lam Thanh Ha, Trieu Vy, Lam Tam Nhu. Famous works accompanying her years such as Hoan Chau Gap, The River of Separation, A Glimpse of Dream...

However, the more illustrious the literary career is, the more unhappy the female singer's love and private life is. Few people know that the painful love stories that bring tears to many people come from what she has experienced in real life.

Quynh Dao was born and raised in a basic and orderly family. At the age of 11, she immigrated to Taiwan with her whole family. Having a father who is a university lecturer, a mother with a high level of education, from a noble background, Quynh Dao has read a lot of books since childhood and especially loves literature. The quality of literature has greatly affected the soul and heart of the young woman. During her high school years, Quynh Dao was nicknamed "Lam Dai Ngoc" by her classmates (the main character in the "Hong Lau Mong") because her appearance was always melancholy, her mood hung in the clouds. wind hanging.

At first, Quynh Dao was a studious student, always working hard and trying hard in her studies, but an event changed her life completely. It was the first love that was perverse but deep.

Quynh Dao fell in love with a teacher 25 years older than her. The teacher in the female singer's eyes is a man of erudition. And the widowed teacher fell in love with her because of her innocent, pure appearance and rare talent. Just like that, the two of them defied barriers to get back together.

Later, the female writer was too engrossed in love to neglect her studies. As a result, she failed the university, her dating was also discovered. The teacher was transferred to another place to work, and Quynh Dao was scolded by her parents. The weak female student who could withstand the attack, immediately tried to commit suicide. Fortunately, she was discovered and treated in time. After making everything clear. Quynh Dao accepted the end of her first love. But this story also changed her life radically, helping the female writer become a legendary novelist in the Chinese love story world. Specifically, she used the opposite love affair as inspiration, creating her first work "Dong Ngoai". Later, "Song Ngoai" was adapted into a movie, starring the great star Lam Thanh Ha.

Then she released a book titled "Before the snowflakes drifted" which is the story of an old couple on the last threshold of life - as Quynh Dao introduced: "Facing death, Accept death, that's what I'm learning." The female singer also said that the book is all her heart at the age of "near earth far from heaven". It was the dismantling of the layered wounds in her heart, when she sat typing each word, her heart seemed to break.

The second love ended in a broken marriage

At the age of 20, Quynh Dao's mother arranged for her to see eyes. This makes the girl even more melancholy, seemingly insurmountable. Fortunately, the female singer met a second man who could make her flutter.

This man, named Khanh Quan, is a recent university graduate in Taiwan, from a poor family, but has a strong love for literature.

Khanh Quan once went to Quynh Dao's house, asked for advice from her parents about composing, and fell in love with the young woman that day. In 1995, the two got married and had a child, despite the vehement objections of Quynh Dao's parents.

However, the romance of love and literature was quickly defeated by the money problem. When she was pregnant and gave birth, Khanh Quan worked abroad, Quynh Dao lived at her mother's house. Around that time, Khanh Quan wrote a letter asking his wife to provide money, Quynh Dao had to write more to send money to her husband.

When the book Song Ngoai was released, Khanh Quan was embarrassed because his wife's love story was open to the world, he wrote an article demeaning Quynh Dao in the newspaper, causing the female writer to decide to end her 5-year marriage.

The third love is tormented with the identity of "small tam snatching her husband"

After the divorce, Quynh Dao published many short novels in Hoang Quan magazine, which was highly appreciated by editor-in-chief Binh Ham Dao. Thanks to his ability and connections, Mr. Binh Ham Dao helps Quynh Dao go further in his career, her novels also help Hoang Quan increase the circulation.

The two fell in love, but at that time, Binh Ham Dao had a family, a gentle wife, and three cute children. And Quynh Dao's family does not allow her to hurt other women. Quynh Dao did not ask Binh Ham Dao to divorce, on the other hand, he also praised his wife for being gentle and kind.

Both of them carry a lot of thoughts and only know how to find work to fill the emotional void. Just like the male and female leads in her novels, Quynh Dao always wants to have someone by her side for life.

Because she wanted to end everything, she was engaged to someone else, preparing to settle abroad. But at this moment, Binh Ham Dao decided to divorce. His wife also wanted to give up. In 1976, Binh Ham Dao and his wife parted peacefully. In 1979, after 16 years of waiting, Quynh Dao was 41 years old then, and Binh Ham Dao 52 years old were officially together.

However, happiness did not last long, when Binh Ham Dao was 90 years old, he suffered from amnesia, completely forgetting about his first wife, who had been with him for more than 30 years. His stepson also never accepted Quynh Dao. They often hinted that Quynh Dao had robbed her biological mother of happiness, as well as openly forbade her to meet and be with Binh Ham Dao. In the end, Quynh Dao was also discouraged and discouraged, letting her three children take care of her husband. I myself live alone.

The emotional letter of female artist Quynh Dao

Before leaving, Female Artist Quynh Dao once said that she had instructed her two children, Tu Quynh and Trung Duy, about the afterlife, both children fully respect their mother's opinion, but she still wants to share her heart. My letter to everyone is known for fear that later, if the two children regret it, they do not want to let their mother leave the world:

"I think you all know how much I dread that fateful day. Now, I want to make it clear about my "rights", those who read this letter can testify, that no matter what, no matter how much pressure you face, don't keep your mother's remains, don't turn your mother into "you can't save your life, you can't die". If you do that, it will be " great filial piety"!".

Quynh Dao added: "This year, my mother is 79 years old, the next year she will be 80. It is a long life. Mother is not because of war, disease, poverty, natural disasters, ... but one step ahead. It is already a blessing to reach this age. That's why, from now on, I will accept death with a smile on my face. My wish is only:

No matter how seriously ill she is, she is determined not to have surgery, let her go quickly. As long as the mother is smart to control everything, let her be the master, otherwise, she must obey her will.

Do not bring the mother to the special intensive care unit.

No matter what, absolutely do not put a breathing tube on the mother. Because once the mother has lost the ability to swallow, she also loses the joy of eating. I don't want to live like that.

One more thing, no matter what, don't put nutrients in the mother's tube. Even catheters, breathing tubes,... are not working.

Mom has already reminded me, life-saving measures such as electric shock, machines, all are not used. I want to go peacefully, this is more important than letting me live in pain.

Mother once said: "When I'm alive, I vow to be the light of fire, burning with all my heart to the last minute of my life. When I die, I will be a snowflake, falling and turning into dust".

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