Crazy father: Raising his son to receive a scholarship to study in the US, training his daughter to become a beauty queen

"Crazy Dad" is a Tik Tok channel that is receiving attention recently. Not only was his parenting style considered "bad", but he also caused controversy for being too close to his daughter.

"Crazy Dad" is the TikTok channel of Mr. Le Hong Kien (46 years old, Hanoi) who has been a single father for more than 10 years. He and his ex-wife divorced in 2010, when they had a son together, To La Loc (real name: Le Xuan Loc, born in 2000) and a lovely daughter, Nang Mo (real name: Le Minh Tra My, Born 2006).

Later, when we moved on, both families often went back and forth. Mr. Kien felt like he had a "successful divorce" when the two of them broke up, but the six of them were happy because both Xuan Loc and Tra My received full love from their parents and were close to their stepfather and stepmother.

In particular, the 7X father's parenting journey received a l.ot of attention. He accompanied his son who was addicted to gaming to win a scholarship to study in the US worth 4 billion at the prestigious Lawrence University. When his son was on his way, Mr. Kien himself spent more than half a year researching and teaching his son.

The father and son set small goals, from regaining basic knowledge, passing the entrance exam to a high school in Hanoi, improving their English, and w.inning an American scholarship. In 2022, Loc will complete his bachelor's degree program in the US. According to Mr. Kien, as soon as he graduates, Loc will return to the country to do business with his father. Every step of the way, Mr. Kien accompanies his c.hild, being both a guide and a spiritual supporter for Xuan Loc.

It was thought that with the experience of w.inning scholarships to study abroad with his son, Mr. Kien could also confidently teach his daughter to achieve good academic results and get into prestigious schools. However, Mr. Kien's journey with his daughter to conquer knowledge was also "struggling" and "arduous".

Mr. Kien admitted that in the past, he used to be old-fashioned and childish in thinking that girls just need to study normally and be good at home economics. "When My was studying from grade 1 to grade 6, I almost let my c.hild be free, without tutoring like Loc and not burdening her academic results," Mr. Kien said.

A few years ago, Mr. Kien began to focus wholeheartedly on the work of cultivating Tra My. Mr. Kien was "shocked" when his daughter had seriously lost her knowledge and her personality was terribly messy.

Immediately after that, Mr. Kien created his own curriculum to regain basic knowledge of Math for Tra My. That was the time when father and son had to really persevere, relearning from elementary school knowledge. By the middle of the 8th grade year, father and son had "caught up" with the curriculum. Tra My is confident with her background knowledge and can proactively study on her own. The g.irl at this time has also "absorbed" good habits from her father, which are orderliness - perseverance - positive thinking.

At the same time, the father began the journey to eliminate the gap between father and daughter. Mr. Kien tries to "simulate" his son's personality so that father and son can have fun and talk more easily. The father learned to listen to Son Tung MT-P's music, booked tickets with his c.hild to see the live shows he liked, spent time watching Chinese "palace fighting" movies with his c.hild...

During the process of accompanying his c.hild, Mr. Kien realized that his daughter was gifted in appearance: delicate face, impressive height. Realizing the advantage of his c.hild's appearance, Mr. Kien did not hesitate to share with everyone: In a few years, Tra My will compete in the beauty contest. Even family members criticized Mr. Kien's idea. Many people said he was "crazy", "crazy", "delusional".

Mr. Kien determined that, in order for her c.hild to be able to participate in beauty contests, Tra My needs to be trained in three aspects: Appearance - physical health; Knowledge and Soul.

In addition to being directly tutored by her father in natural subjects, Tra My self-taught Literature and received investment from her father to learn English very methodically. Mr. Kien pays great attention to teaching his children how to think coherently, logically, and critically. Father and son often read books together, exchange and share with each other. At home, Mr. Kien also invested in modern equipment for father and son to practice GYM, jogging... Tra My actively participated in extracurricular activities such as MC club, media, basketball...

Recently, Mr. Kien said that Mo's image is covering social networking sites with many controversies, even with uncultured words. However, this still does not affect Mo because she still receives bookings from brands and livestreams sales regularly.

Mr. Kien said: "Dreaming b.ig, being independent on your own two feet is enough to have wings and wings. Now knowing how to respond to people requires having horns and sharp teeth. Loc taught me, with people of knowledge, I Let's debate, but with ridiculous people, we should humble ourselves and let everyone judge for themselves."

Another controversial thing is when Mo often calls his father "Kien" or "brother Kien" and not "father Kien". In some clips, the two brothers are also called "crazy dad". This makes many people think that the two brothers are not respecting their father and calling him inappropriate words.

In response to those comments, Mr. Kien said this is a family rule that has been set for itself since the children were young. "My father and I are close, calling each other that from the time we were born until now. Why do you say things that go against traditional customs and traditions? Family members love each other. If you truly love each other, then expressing it is necessary. Emotions are very civilized," he shared.

On the other hand, Mr. Kien was also accused of acting too close to his children, especially Ms. Mo. Loc even objected when his father posted a video of him holding Mo's hand on social networks.

Faced with this opinion, he said this is a way for him to make up for the past hurts he caused to his children. "In the past, I was a man who made mistakes with my children and both my old and new wives. The only difference between me and other men is that I know how to admit my mistakes and correct them at all costs. Now I'm still in the process. self-improvement process," he said.

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