NS Trong Nghia: When she lost her job, she had to work as a driver, marry a woman the same ag.e as her children and en.d up at the ag.e of U60?

He used to be a popular male reformed artist, but because of many events, artist Trong Nghia suffered from a mental illness and had to temporarily stop working. In a time of loss, Trong Nghia used to have to drive and perform comedy to make ends meet

Referring to the reformed artists who left an impression in the hearts of fans, the name Trong Nghia cannot be ignored. Not as popular as many "seniors and seniors" in the profession, but Trong Nghia is a familiar face in many plays. However, there was a time when he left the stage because of severe psychological problems.

Trong Nghia was born in 1966, comes from a farming family in Vinh Long, he was passionate about don ca tai tu from a young ag.e, so he went to Saigon at the ag.e of 15 to study a training course organized by the Saigon Cai Luong Group 1. In the 90s, his name was loved by many audiences, notably with the role of Ly Quang Son in Heavy burden Giang san, Ly Hoai Nam in Long Phung Chau newspaper.

In 1993, the two largest reformed clans, Minh To and Huynh Long, invited him to collaborate. After that, the male artist was allowed to work with People's Artist Thanh Tong, Meritorious Artist Truong Son,... next time the male artist became famous. with the play Trial of Phi Giao, Duong Gia Tuong,...

From a young ag.e, Trong Nghia grew up in the sound of his grandfather's pliers, so that the artist's soul and artistic bloo.d were always raised. Although he has not gone to school, but only singing in the neighborhood, Trong Nghia has also been loved and supported by his relatives. Gradually, the male artist was invested to study methodically at the Saigon Cai Luong Group 1 organization - his classroom as well as his first stage in life. Being "Hurt" with the best efforts, the artistic path of artist Trong Nghia has a future.

At the peak of his career, the golden period of reform in the 80s - 90s, Trong Nghia was a name loved by the audience alongside artists Vu Linh, Tai Linh, Kim Tu Long, Thanh Thanh Tam, Thoai. My... He has had many lifetime roles in plays such as: "Heavy burden of Giang Son", "Long Phung Chau Bao Quoc", "Trial of Phi Giao"...

But few people know that there was a time when the male artist had to stop his artistic activities. When he returned, he had a bit of guilt because he was lagging behind other artists of his ag.e. Artist Trong Nghia confided: "I congratulate people, but I'm also sad why I'm not equal. Honestly, I have a lot of opportunities, but there are many family events that make me unable to do it. Yes I took a break from singing for 2 years due to physical weakness and depression.

I had to worry and manage this and that, so my mind was tight for 3-4 years like that... I was exhausted. Slowly, I became mentally ill. When I went to the stage, I didn't dare to sing when I saw the lights, and when I saw crowds, I was afraid. Live shows are always interrupted, I finished dressing up until the show started, my heart was pounding, I couldn't sing like that. But then I have a reputation like that, I was a bit sad at that time. In the past, whoever invited to go out to drink with a large number of people was happy, now when they are sick, they are afraid to go anywhere. At that time, the 10 doctors I went to the mental hospital could get 5 people. I still get goosebumps thinking about it now."

During the period of convalescence, artist Trong Nghia was fortunate to have the companionship and sharing of relatives and colleagues to help him get better. In addition, the male artist tries very hard to think about his family, career... to raise his spirits. Although when he returned to the stage he was "slower" than everyone else, the audience gradually forgot, but the fire of his profession enlightened him to constantly strive and only a few years later, he regained his position.

There was a time when the theater stage gradually disappeared from the audience, Trong Nghia had to drive while performing comedy shows to support family life. He missed Cai Luong and Ho Quang a lot, but he couldn't find his way back until he met artist Vu Linh.

The male artist shared: "Later on, Mr. Vu Linh returned to the troupe to set up the play 'Heavy burden Giang san' so that he could sing the main role, I sang the second role. Maybe the trade group pulled me back so I could meet and sing that role, because of me. Since then, every day from Tuesday to Sunday, my role also pops up, the audience comes to see and go out to the station, there is this man who can sing and sing well. I have a name, I'm glad to hear that I'm 'grouped'."

40 years of working hard under the spotlight, despite many ups and downs, still fortunate to be able to return to the profession, artist Trong Nghia always feels cherished about that. On the career path, the male artist has the greatest luck that he has a family as a solid back. After a broken marriage, Trong Nghia married a second time at the ag.e of 52.

Trong Nghia used to have an unhappy married life and left the stage because of psychological effects. He then found his current wife, who helped him regain his sanity and return to the arts. Trong Nghia's wife, born in 1995, is 29 years younger than him. Trong Nghia said that Thanh Trang is a beautiful, talented gir.l who behaves very skillfully and is especially brave, she is also the one to help him return to the stage.

Participating in the program Good Life Partner, the couple said they met each other by chance during a family singing session. At that time, Trong Nghia was a performer, and Thanh Trang was just an audience to admire his talent. Trong Nghia said: "At that time, I just sang, but I didn't know anything. It was only when I finished singing, I asked for a phone number."

Next, the wife of the reformed artist said that when they came together, she did not hesitate to talk about the ag.e difference. Because Thanh Trang believes : "When we love, it doesn't matter ag.e or profession. As long as we understand each other, it's fine". However, Trong Nghia's wife said that in married life, the two inevitably disagreed on life views.

Sharing about the first days of knowing her husband, Thanh Trang said that she was invited by Trong Nghia to drink water but only talked happily, not thinking that one day they would be lovers. After that, the two no longer met, once Trong Nghia called to ask to marry Thanh Trang : "I am also that old, I want to ask your parents' permission to marry you, I don't know if you agree?"

Because she has a special affection for the male artist, Thanh Trang agrees to marry her older husband, on the other hand, has a chil.d of her own. Trong Nghia expressed: "When I got married, I already had a chil.d of my own, so my wife was not in a hurry to have children because she wanted to take care of her own children, then she thought about her own business. She was not afraid of hardship, not afraid of anything. nothing but fear that her husband's drinking will affect his health".

3 years after getting married, the couple officially welcomed a chil.d together, the male artist U60 is happy with his small family. Currently, artist Trong Nghia is working at Tran Huu Trang theater and his wife is doing a small business and supporting the family. Trong Nghia is grateful to his young wife for giving him a happy life at the ag.e of U60 with a small family, her sacrifice to the family and especially for loving her husband's stepchildren.