The two girls who fell at the Topaz Home apartment, are they forbidden to love?

According to the parents' share, both female students have a romantic relationship. A week earlier, two female students left home and went somewhere unknown, so the family searched.

Up to now, District 12 police are still coordinating with professional units to investigate the case of 2 girls falling to their deaths at Topaz Home apartment building on Phan Van Hon street, Tan Thoi Nhat ward, district 12 (HCMC). .

Regarding the incident, the family members of the two girls went to the authorities to work. After viewing the images through the camera, the two parents confirmed that the two girls who died at the apartment building were their children. Specifically, the identities of two female students are LNTK (16 years old, living in District 12) and NTTH (16 years old, living in District 4), both studying at a school in District 3 (HCMC).

According to the parents' share, both female students have a romantic relationship. A week earlier, two female students left home and went somewhere unknown, so the family searched. The family later found a number of text messages between the two female students that mentioned suicidal thoughts.

According to the initial investigation results, at about 2:30 p.m. on the same day, a male apartment security guard was on duty when he heard a loud noise near the duty post, so he approached to check and found two people lying motionless in front of the apartment, so he reported to the agency. function.

Upon receiving the news, the District 12 Police and the People's Procuracy of the same level coordinated with the Ho Chi Minh City Police Department to examine the scene. At the top floor of the A1 building of this apartment building, the authorities discovered that there were 2 backpacks, 1 skateboard, a phone, and no identification.

Extract the security surveillance camera of the apartment building and work with the apartment guards, identify the two female students walking on Phan Van Hon Street and then heading from Truong Chinh Street to Highway 1, entering the apartment building. Here, a female student took a skateboard in front of the apartment.

Then the two girls walked into the parking lot of the apartment complex, then crossed the swimming pool, took the stairs to the 3rd floor of the A1 building to take the elevator to the rooftop of the apartment building. The camera image did not record the two female students being forced.

Working with the investigating agency, the apartment security said that the entrances to the apartment must use magnetic cards. However, the entrance area from the pool does not use magnetic cards. So 2 female students went this way to go to the rooftop and then the heartbreaking incident happened.

At present, the case is still under further investigation.

At any stage of life, each of us is faced with psychosocial conflicts stemming from individual needs that conflict with social needs. Some of them are solvable, and some are not, especially for children, where problem-solving and adaptive skills are limited. Therefore, certain difficult situations can trigger negative thoughts and emotional outbursts, leading children to seek ways to end stress by suicide.

Currently, teen suicide is increasing, but adults and parents do not know how to identify, support and intervene. Studies have shown that the leading cause of teen suicide is anxiety and depression. Anxiety and depression are common problems and are common during adolescent development (the transition from childhood to adulthood). This is a very sensitive age to the impacts of the environment and society due to physiological and psychological changes at this age.

In Vietnam, one of the common causes of depression in adolescents is the pressure of studying and taking exams. The too-heavy class schedule, including full-time study and extra lessons, takes up most of the time, making children feel stressed and tired all the time. In addition, some children easily fall into a state of "psychological shock" and think negatively, even ending their lives after failures in study and exams. Currently, in fact, in Vietnam, mental health issues, especially the psychology of school-age teenagers, have not been given much attention. According to the data of a number of studies in Vietnam, the rate of adolescents suffering from depression is 26.3%, children having thoughts about death is 6.3%, children planning suicide is 4, 6% and children who attempted suicide 5.8%.

In addition, conflict in life is also one of the causes of teen suicide. Disagreeing relationships, conflicts with family, friends, and society but are not shared can prevent children from finding solutions to resolve. Children are more likely to have negative, out-of-control thoughts that lead to suicidal behavior and see suicide as a way to help get rid of the deadlocks in life.

What can we do?

Teen suicide is a preventable problem. Understanding the causes and warning signs will help parents find ways to deal with and prevent this condition.

- Do not impose academic achievement on children, do not set too high expectations for children because this will put pressure on children.

- It is necessary to create closeness and closeness between parents and children so that children can confide and share when having difficulties in learning and in social relationships.

- Allocate study and entertainment time for children in a reasonable way. Should organize picnics, or let children participate in outdoor activities, to ensure a healthy spiritual life for children.

- Teach children life skills so that they are able to cope with life's events.

Remember, teen suicide is preventable.

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