Family funeral invites DJ to play music, should or should not argue?

Recently, social networks have spread a series of videos recording a funeral with a different organization, causing a lot of controversy. Instead of the familiar trumpets, drums or funeral music, the family of the deceased invited a DJ to perform right at the ceremony.

The vibrant sounds, flashing lights and bustling atmosphere left many attendees stunned, with some even swaying to the music. This image quickly became the center of discussion. Most people thought that hiring a DJ to perform at a funeral was an inelegant act, disrupting the inherent solemnity of a sad event.

One account commented: "Funerals are where children and relatives remember and bid farewell to the deceased, playing loud music is no different than turning a sacred place into a place of entertainment." Many other opinions also agreed, saying that funerals are inherently associated with a quiet, solemn atmosphere, so combining DJ music can easily cause offense and is difficult to be accepted by society.

However, there is also an opposing view. Some people defend the homeowner, saying that traditional thinking should not be imposed on all cases. "If that is the last wish of the deceased, then the family should respect it. The funeral is ultimately to remember and follow the wishes of the deceased, as long as it does not affect security and order" - a netizen shared.

In the face of heated debate, the DJ service owner spoke up to explain. This person said that they did not perform on their own initiative but were invited by the family according to the deceased's wishes. The DJ service owner said that they only did as requested. Before passing away, the deceased wanted the funeral to take place in a lively, cheerful atmosphere, so that the survivors would not be too immersed in grief. Although the family was heartbroken, they still tried to fulfill their last wishes. Therefore, this should not be seen as an offensive or disrespectful act to tradition.

This person also emphasized that in reality, in many funerals in Vietnam, families often hire Western trumpets, invite opera troupes or even folk bands to perform to create an atmosphere. Because people are used to that form, when they see DJs - a modern form of music - appearing in the funeral scene, they feel "shocked" and find it difficult to accept.

From a sociological perspective, many experts believe that this controversy reflects the difference in the concept of funerals between generations. For the younger generation, they tend to see funerals not only as a mourning but also as an occasion to show gratitude and honor the deceased in a personalized way. Meanwhile, the older generation still emphasizes solemnity and tradition, considering funerals as sacred places, not suitable for entertainment.

Despite the conflicting opinions, everyone agrees that the most important thing in a funeral is the family's respect and remembrance for the deceased. The way it is organized - whether traditional or modern - is just a means to express that sentiment. Currently, the series of videos about "DJ funerals" continues to spread strongly, becoming a hot topic of discussion.

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