The guy bluntly ended his relationship with his girlfriend because the other person didn't bother to wash the dishes after eating

Just because she came to the house to visit and refused to wash the dishes after leaving, the girl was told to break up by her other half. This couple's story is receiving intense attention and debate from the online community.

Not long ago, a guy named D.AN recounted his budding love story that quickly ended on his personal TikTok channel. Specifically, Mr. N. shared: "Stopping a relationship just because you invite them over for dinner, but after dinner that person doesn't wash the dishes. Many times we don't know if it's because we're too picky or because the person lacks integrity." more economically".

According to D.AN, when inviting a female friend home, N. took the initiative to cook while the other person just waited to enjoy. Because for him, cooking is a passion, so going into the kitchen to make a few dishes for special guests is no big deal. It's just that he was quite... disappointed because after the meal, the girl calmly went to the sofa to scroll on the phone without even offering to help N. clean up the dishes.

Even though the guy told his story in a rather gentle way, what D.AN shared still caused intense debate in the online community. It is true that there is no general standard that can apply to all relationships, however, politeness is still the minimum that each person needs to have.

The reason people argue about this issue is because each individual has a different perspective and opinion on love between men and women. However, from the arguments, if we look further and think deeper, we can see two common ways of thinking of women in dating.

Most of the people who "condemned" the story that the boy named D.AN shared were women of many different ages, including middle-aged. Typically, a mother frankly commented: "If I had a daughter, I would never marry someone like you."

In this situation, many people believe that Mr. N. stopping his relationship with the other girl is just "the tip of an iceberg". Because he's only at the dating stage and already comparing washing dishes and chopsticks with the other person only proves that D.AN is a person who doesn't know how to yield and pamper his girlfriend.

"If I met someone like you, I would also bow down. Someone who really loves me will never compare and calculate like that," a girl left a comment under N's video. After that, He is also not afraid to frankly express his opinion: "Meeting someone who truly loves you? I'm so afraid of you guys, I have to treat you like I'm paralyzed and take care of you to love you."

With just a few opinions above, it can be seen that the definitions of the word "love" for men and women today seem to have no intersection. Because many women still believe that a man who pampers them and does everything for them loves them.

However, besides the comments criticizing D.AN, there are also many people (both men and women) expressing their agreement and sympathy for the young man's state of mind. "This person is right, right? If you're a guest but don't cook or wash dishes, you still have to help clean up or at least ask if they need any help?", the girl named CL shared.

Not just the emotional relationship in D.AN's story. Just think simply, when someone comes to a relative or friend's house to eat or drink, even if they are guests and the host doesn't ask them to do anything. Isn't it a bit... impolite to just sit idle and let the other person cook and serve alone?

Furthermore, with close relationships, preparing meals together and cleaning up together is a joy of sharing, not a heavy task. "Those of you who are not married or have children may find this male friend difficult, but when you are married, you will understand that these basic human relations are a must," a woman named C. affirmed. determined.

In short, in a relationship, no matter whether it's dating or marriage, sharing everything together from the smallest things is always necessary. Because if we can't do simple things together like cooking, washing dishes, and cleaning the house, how can we work together with the other person to do big things like taking care of children, being filial to parents, and building a family? only me.

It's undeniable that women deserve to be loved and pampered, but that doesn't mean that your boyfriend or partner has to do everything. Because in the end, whether male or female, the need to be loved and shared is the same.

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