The bridegroom married a widow in her 40s and took the final blow, one step up to become the youngest grandfather in Vietnam

Not long ago, public opinion was surprised by the story of a young man who had just married a 38-year-old widow who had become a "father-in-law and grandfather". Everyone was surprised about the skewed love affair in Quang Nam, and at the same time hoped they would build a family together.

Hoang and Sanh were once famous in the online community

The main characters in the story are Hoang (born 1995) and Ms. Sanh (born 1985) - a widow with 5 biological children, a daughter-in-law and a grandchild. They were famous all over the internet for this unique love story.

But not long after, people in the area spread rumors that the couple had gone their separate ways. So a YouTuber came to meet Ms. Sanh to see if the rumor was true. She said that a few months after the couple became famous, her daughter fell ill and had to be hospitalized for treatment. At that time, Hoang went to the hospital to take care of his daughter for 2 nights. He then told his wife that he would return home to raise money to pay his daughter's hospital bills. He went to his mother-in-law to ask for a loan of 1 million VND and then promptly brought it down for Ms. Sanh to take care of.

"Seeing that my wife and children were suffering so much, he told me that I had to go to the city to get a job to earn money to take care of my daughter. He told me to stay home, take care of my health, take care of the children and check in with my wife often. the older man's husband.

He also told me that my mother and I are here to take care of our youngest child, so we don't need many people to look after us. I saw that what he said made sense so I agreed to let him look for a job. But I didn't expect...", Ms. Sanh shared on PMC channel

Hoang went away for a while without calling to ask how his daughter was doing. Ms. Sanh was impatient and worried that something would happen to her husband, so she called. Unexpectedly, he said in a clear voice that he was working and would return when he had money.

The two have a daughter together

At this time, the couple's daughter was healthy. Ms. Sang asked to be discharged from the hospital to let her child go home and informed her young husband of the news. "He came back one night to visit his daughter and then left again. When I asked, he said he couldn't take much time off from work, he would be fired.

I heard people say he went to Saigon and is living with another woman. He called to ask, saying he missed his child very much and wanted to see him. I don't agree," Ms. Sang teared up.

Ms. Sang does many jobs to make a living, such as being a construction worker, planting trees or picking latex for people with a salary of several hundred thousand/day to raise her young children. But this job is not stable, now and tomorrow it makes an already miserable life even more miserable.

Ms. Sang became a widow a few years ago, has 6 children (including biological children, daughter-in-law) and one grandchild. She was the one who actively flirted with Hoang. She once said that she happened to see a clip of Hoang walking from Saigon to the Central region on social networks so she texted to get acquainted. Then she called and invited him to come visit the village. Unexpectedly, he came to see her immediately.

After that, the two fell in love with each other and decided to move in together. At that time, Hoang's family tried to prohibit and not accept the bridegroom marrying a widow who had become a grandmother. But he defied everything to be with the woman he loved.

Some time later, the happy couple welcomed their baby daughter and together took care of their family even though life was very difficult. Hoang even promised to stay with Ms. Sanh and her children until they were both gray and white.

In terms of society, our grandparents have a saying "old husband and young wife are fairies, old wife and young husband are three generations of love", the above saying speaks of a sympathetic and positive view towards couples with a large gap. about age.

But in terms of "old wife and young husband", public opinion is much more likely to whisper and discuss. "He" is often considered a "gold digger" and a "young pilot flying an old lady's plane". As for "she", she is always laughed at: "An old buffalo that is eager to graze on young grass", "too springy", "big cheek".

So you see, it's not just men who like to pursue beautiful young girls. Nowadays, more and more women who are economically independent, successful, or famous are choosing to date or marry young men, which is also becoming a trend.

In the past, dating younger men was less socially acceptable, but now things have changed. Women no longer just sit there waiting for men to build the world to her liking but create it themselves.

On the other hand, most modern women are always conscious of maintaining their figure and skin. Thanks to that, even though they are no longer in their prime, they still look beautiful, stylish and full of energy. They can proactively choose a dating partner if they feel like it, is suitable and comfortable without worrying much about social prejudices.

Nowadays, women cannot be moved by a man equal or older than them, they only like "brothers" who are a few or ten years younger. They are young, romantic and love their girlfriends to the fullest. As for the older men, most of them are married and have children, or are divorced, so thinking about the situation of having children together with children of their own is quite complicated.