Hai Bang suspected of discriminating against her husband's stepchild at Dat G's wedding, quickly responded

Recently, Hai Bang shared on her personal page pictures of her whole family attending Dat G's wedding. And immediately these photos attracted a lot of attention on social networks.

Appearing in the photo are the couple and four children, including a boy who is Thanh Dat's child with his ex-wife. What has netizens buzzing is not the neat frame but the arrangement of positions and interactions between members, especially the "quiet" presence of the older boy.

While Thanh Dat and Hai Bang's two sons were dressed quite smartly, Thanh Dat's stepchild was rather simple in a T-shirt and jeans. Even when taking a photo with her children, Hai Bang did not take a photo with her husband's stepchild.

Many people left comments expressing their sadness, saying there were signs of discrimination: "No photos with stepchildren, only with my own children", or "I feel sorry for the child because you can tell by the way he stands." Another comment even mentioned that the older child was supposed to go home by Grab while the rest of the family members took their own cars.

However, in response to negative comments, singer Hai Bang officially spoke up in the comments section to clarify the matter. When an audience member asked why she didn't post a separate photo with her older child like she did with her younger children, the singer replied briefly but clearly: "The older child doesn't like to take pictures, my friend."

This response partly reflects a reality that many modern families face: As they get older, some children tend to be less comfortable with being photographed or appearing in public, especially stepchildren – who may have their own sensitivities about their place in the new family.

Along with the critical comments, there were also many people calling on netizens to be careful when judging based on just a few photos. One account wrote: "I don't live in their family, don't jump to conclusions."

This short story reflects the unspoken challenges in the current "split-family" family model. Whether biological or stepchildren, what they need most is respect and proper love, even in very ordinary moments like a family photo.

In August 2016, Hai Bang and Thanh Dat publicly dated and then decided to get married. Since becoming "someone else's wife", the female singer no longer participates in showbiz activities but devotes all her time to her family and business. Currently, Hai Bang is the mother of 3 children named Kem, Koi and Kio.

Hai Bang is praised for her clever way of teaching her children. She reminds her children to save money by putting lucky money in piggy banks to accumulate for a long time. Hai Bang - Thanh Dat's children are always taught: "Parents work hard to earn money, so you must know how to take care of your belongings and not waste food." As for her daughter, Hai Bang once attracted attention when she told her: "Be gentle and sweet, but don't be shy, don't bully anyone and don't let anyone bully you."

In addition to the way she teaches her biological children, the relationship between Hai Bang and Kid - the son of Thanh Dat and Diep Bao Ngoc - is also of public interest. Talking about her feelings for her husband's step-son, Hai Bang revealed that Kid loves her very much. However, Hai Bang confessed that she does not want him to call her mother. The female singer always tells her husband's step-son that he only has one mother and Kid understands that. Hai Bang once affirmed that if she were in the same situation as Diep Bao Ngoc, she would not like her child to call another woman mother. In addition, Hai Bang does not feel uncomfortable when her husband Thanh Dat pays more attention to his step-son.

Once, when netizens called her stepchild's "stepmother", Hai Bang responded: "First, as I said, children deserve to be loved by adults. Second, I'm not a mother, I'm an aunt. Third, I'm not a stepmother. I can't force you to think like me, but if you have such different thoughts, it's best not to go on other people's Facebook to judge this and that. Everyone needs to be respected." Immediately after that, many people spoke up to defend her and said that it was just a title, the important thing was how Hai Bang loved and cared for Kid.

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