The guy went to see his eyes 100 times, from when he was a young man until he was 40, he still had no wife!

In the past, if you wanted to get married without an object, the best way would be to go see the eyes, but seeing the eyes does not seem to be very favorable for the guy in the story below.

Hua Minh Vy (34 years old), is currently a lecturer at a college in Chongqing (China) with a salary of about 6,000 yuan per month (equivalent to 20 million VND). Sharing with the TV station, he has been looking for eyes for ten years through matchmaking and dating centers, the cost has reached tens of thousands of yuan but the results are still not very satisfactory.

Sharing about himself, Hua Minh Vy revealed that he is 1m68 tall, does not have his own house, does not have a car, lives in the school dormitory, and returns to his mother's house a few tens of kilometers from the city center on weekends. His mother is a single woman, so he always longs for a family home. "I look forward to one day holding my lover's hand for a walk on the beach, under the sunset," he said.

Mr. Hua boredly recounted the times he saw his eyes, he thought that the girls had too high standards, from the beginning required their boyfriends to be from 1m75 to 1m8 and a high income.

He said: "Once, when I went to see my eyes, instead of going out to eat and then watch a movie or go for a walk, the girl asked me to come see my house first. She also asked me about my after-tax salary three times. even, the other party bluntly said 'we don't match' after I shared the salary."

Another time when preparing to have an appointment with an old colleague, after he revealed his salary, the girl immediately "turned the car" and refused to meet him. Not only that, the girl also rudely texted him that when he earns tens of thousands of yuan a month, let's talk again.

Mr. Hua is also self-aware that he is not perfect and has certain shortcomings, so he just wants a woman who is gentle, understanding and doesn't appreciate salary when he comes to him. He also revealed that even though he goes to the "Face View Corner" at Chongqing Park every week, every girl who comes here is curious about "how much salary" instead of a serious conversation.

10 years of hard work to find "half" of his life, Mr. Hua also constantly improved himself. The proof is that he has owned up to 20 certificates and degrees in the process of accumulating and improving knowledge. However, the salary remained unchanged. He knows that with this salary, it is difficult for him to live in an expensive city, as well as the expenses for the whole family.

His story, after being broadcast on television, became a hot topic of public opinion. Some people say that he is a person with low EQ, others say he should let his feet touch the ground, if his finances are not enough to support his family, how will he and his wife and children live when he gets married, and that no one wants to suffer? suffering with a whole heart of gold.

After reading those comments, Mr. Hua shared that he couldn't help but feel heartbroken. However, he chose not to argue with them and explained: "Because of different living environments, different perceptions, and definitely different understanding. I don't need to explain to people who don't understand me."

Although still yearning for a true love, now Hua Minh Vy is no longer confident every time he goes to see a face, because he is afraid of receiving more rejections.

Mr. Xu's story once again aroused controversy around the difficulty of Chinese men in finding love and marriage. The gender gap is larger than that of women, and economic and social pressures are the main reasons why it is increasingly difficult for Chinese men to get married.

Besides, the pressure of "wedding gift" makes more and more rural men in China bored when it comes to marriage. The bride's house is too high, along with the requirements on family background, economic conditions and many other factors that have a significant influence on the love and marriage market in the country of billions of people.

Directly related to the lives of men of marriageable age in Vietnam, it is clear that many people are in the same situation as Mr. Hua in the above story. It is true that in today's society, relationships between people are divided by material things and money, but it is also what has become the norm in marriage and love. However, instead of whining, digging deep or trying to find a half to accept your own deficiency, just try it yourself, strive for yourself, advance in society, maybe find a friend. Life will also be a lot easier.

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