Tu Tri - Just crowned 'Face of cinema 2022': Bear hundreds of thousands of bitterness because of same-sex love

Talking about the time when he loved Yun Bin, Tu Tri repeatedly interrupted because he burst into tears. The couple endured enough gossip. The singer born in 1999 said that for the first time she experienced the harshness of life's mouth.

Tu Tri was born in 1999, and Yun Bin first knew each other in April 2018 when the singer went to casting a supporting role for his movie. Yun Bin was born in 1992, has been a director for about 5 years.

In fact, Tu Tri knew and idolized Yun Bin before, when he watched his first film "Forbidden Left" - also his most successful film, in 10th grade. After the casting session, Tu Tri suddenly found his heart fluttering, so much so that when I meet everyone, I can boast of meeting Yun Bin, being laughed at by my idols...

About Yun Bin, initially did not pay attention to Tu Tri because that day casting hundreds of people. Until Tu Tri casting for the second time, she showed off her voice in front of company leaders in the meeting room. The singer's voice was so loud that Yun Bin had to stop everything to listen. "Her voice is so beautiful, I can't help but be impressed," said the director.

Seeing that Tu Tri needed motivation to sing, Yun Bin opened an invitation to go to the movies to cheer, but did not expect her to go. Tu Tri spent the whole dress selection session so that on the first date, she appeared in a super wide form shirt and jeans... studded with sequins. The date went quite smoothly except that Tu Tri innocently made the director line up for milk tea or sometimes joked.

Yun Bin once swore to his heart that he would never meet a teenage g.irl after two previous broken relationships. The young director began to get to know Tu Tri but did not intend to seriously date; but later was conquered by this g.irl 7 years younger than this.

Tu Tri knew Yun Bin was transgender since 10th grade, when he watched his first movie. "Tri had a boyfriend and the fact that she fell in love with a trans-guy (who is biologically female but whose gender identity is male). Liking women doesn't reflect her sexual orientation. I don't inject hormones, nor do I take hormones. I haven't had a full gender reassignment surgery yet because I'm satisfied with the present; but must be seen as a man. Tri is not bisexual or gay," Yun Bin said.

Talking about the time when he loved Yun Bin, Tu Tri repeatedly interrupted because he burst into tears. The couple endured enough gossip. The singer born in 1999 said that for the first time she experienced the harshness of life's mouth.

"They say that Tri loves me in vain because she deserves to be with a man more. They say that Tri takes advantage of loving me as a springboard for fame and will soon "kick" me. But the sentence that shocked me the most, from one boss: "Tu Tri would have come a long way, but if I openly love you, I will become an obstacle to Tri's career." And I really lost sleep, couldn't stop thinking about this sentence ", Yun Bin was touched.

The director said he had read very crude comments like asking about his and his girlfriend's s.ex. Some people claim to be Tu Tri's boyfriend, asking Yun Bin to stay away from her. Tu Tri's side was also texted by some internet users "sticking the wheel" with sensitive and extremely rude questions such as: "I guess I haven't been close to men so I was lured by it / When will I grow up, knowing the smell of life will leave it."

However, the two do not know the real-life attack and pressure from neighbors and relatives is the nightmare that haunts them later.

Dating for 4 months, Tu Tri and Yun Bin got engaged. The first time she took Yun Bin home, Tu Tri told everyone that she was "going to get married". When Yun Bin's grandmother returned to Vietnam, she decided to cooperate with the young couple early by calling and talking to Tu Tri's mother. The next day, the director's mother and grandmother went to see auspicious days and chose a date for the engagement ceremony.

Tu Tri and Yun Bin were both worried about getting engaged too early, but now, both feel that the decision that year was the right one. On the other hand, after the first outing in Vung Tau, Tu Tri stayed at Yun Bin's house for the reason that "rainy month, not convenient to return to Ho Chi Minh City". Both live in harmony, so they don't calculate much.

Gallant, psychological but traditional, are Tu Tri's words that describe Yun Bin. The director asked the person he married to be good at housework, so the first two months of living together, Tu Tri had to successfully complete the family work.

Tu Tri's house is in An Giang, in a remote "underground" area. She said, when her parents sent a wedding card, once a relative pointedly said, "If you marry Tri to that guy, I won't go to the wedding and leave your family." This relative insisted that Tu Tri's marriage to Yun Bin was sick and immoral. Not only relatives but neighbors, teachers, work partners... all confirmed that Tu Tri would "finish his life", "destroy", "do no good" if he married Yun Bin.

Tu Tri said that when he was in 8th grade, he used to sing at weddings to help his parents get paid. Tu Tri did not expect that because he was going to sing at a wedding, he was despised by his neighbors. "They say I'm the kind of singer who sings at weddings, so no man dares to marry, he has to marry a g.irl," she said with tears in her eyes.

There were times when he was offended, Tu Tri waved in his heart wanting to "lose enough". But it was Yun Bin who held her back. From the moment they fell in love, the director told Tu Tri that if his parents didn't agree, they would both stop and be friends because Yun Bin was afraid that his girlfriend would have to choose between lover and family. When Yun Bin first debuted with Tu Tri's family, his heart beat and his feet trembled, but he did not expect that his girlfriend's family would be as precious as a c.hild in the family.

Tu Tri recalls: "In the countryside, they still believed that I married a gay. There was a lot of opposition, my mother couldn't stand it, she wanted us to postpone the wedding while the two families had finished talking, there was only 1 left. We got on a motorbike and drove straight from Ho Chi Minh City to An Giang on a rainy night. A serious talk with my parents when my mother was still not really comfortable. came out and declared: "If no one does the wedding, he will help himself." My grandparents loved me the most. My father initially gave in to my mother, but then he was determined to marry... to marry.

The couple hugged each other and cried in the late night because the frustrations and struggles were partially released. Although from the moment of publicizing their relationship, they were strongly opposed, but they still did not give up hope and never thought about breaking up.

Even Tu Tri lost many contracts. The partner said that "same-sex marriage" singers are not suitable to represent the product; or lose singing shows for students for fear of "spreading LGBT". Yun Bin was very sad, tormented and wondered if it was because of him that his wife lost her job? On Tu Tri's side, receiving love with equanimity is sometimes a bit defiant.

Yun Bin and Tu Tri's lives changed when Tu Tri won the Solo Runner-up with Boléro in 2018, all the harsh treatment of the couple in the past suddenly disappeared. "The same person who once claimed to ignore Tri's family, now "hunts" us the most, there are parties in the countryside calling us back," the director said with a bitter smile.

Yun Bin publicly pursued the new man after breaking up with Tu Tri, r.evealing his other half's identity Hoàng Phúc14:58:42 15/01/2024In early October, director Yun Bin suddenly announced that he and his wife - singer Tu Tri - had ended their relationship. Accordingly, he said the two had many conflicts that could not be resolved and finally decided to stop.