TikToker Gia Dinh Gau announced separation, 'exposed' wife's capriciousness, attitude towards husband

Some time ago, the story of a husband in Hanoi taking care of his pregnant wife who was seriously ill went viral all over the internet. Recently, the husband in the story has been updating his current relationship, causing a stir among the public.

About a year ago, the story of Nguyen Dat Chien (27 years old, Thanh Oai, Hanoi), owner of the TikTok channel "Gau Family" with nearly 243 thousand followers, devotedly taking care of his pregnant wife Phi Trang (21 years old) to overcome a serious brain hemorrhage went viral on social networks, bringing tears to millions of people. The image of a loving husband who steadfastly faced the incident has built a beautiful, positive "Gau family" in the public eye.

However, recently, Nguyen Dat Chien suddenly "surprised" the online community when he updated a shocking video. He said that he was no longer living with his wife and children but had returned home to live with his father and brother for a while. This statement immediately surprised the public and made them wonder, because just a few days ago (June 14), Chien and Trang were still going to restaurants, celebrating their son's birthday, showing a happy and positive life as usual.

The truth behind "virtual" happiness: "For the past year, I have not been myself!"

Explaining this bold decision, Chien said that this was the right time to separate. He wanted Trang to "correct her personality" and at the same time give himself "time to reshape his lifestyle and for the couple to have time to think and determine whether they were truly living for each other or just out of responsibility."

Notably, Chien frankly broke the image of a "happy family" that they had built for so long: "For the past year, I have not lived as myself, I have lived according to the imposition of others, and you know that living like that is very painful. Sometimes I have to do things that go against my conscience, I am haunted by what my wife says. I have to choose my wife's facial expression to follow, at night I have to listen to my wife's breath, whether it is short or long, to know whether I have satisfied her that day or not."

He also painfully shared that his life no longer knew right from wrong, but only had humility, a different kind every day, "the feeling of being born with the duty to obey others." Chien's confessions revealed a harsh reality: the happy appearance on social media can hide terrible cracks and pressures in real life.

"The hardships of an inexperienced wife": Chien speaks up to "expose" everyday details .

In the comment section, Chien added more about the reason why his wife showed signs of "imposition". He affirmed that his wife is currently completely healthy, but because "her husband protects her too much, makes everything very easy for her, so she does not understand the importance", and even bitterly said that "my wife has not experienced hardship, so she does not see things thoroughly".

This husband also "recounted" some "laughable" details in his daily life: he once had to travel 70km just to buy cakes for his wife or she would get angry, or travel 100km just to make her happy and willing to exercise. No one could even give his wife more than 2 comments because she always responded "indifferently": "I know it's not possible, but that's my personality."

"When I was sick, it was okay, I did everything for my wife to recover, but now she has to recover on her own. I still have to work to develop the economy, take care of my father and brother... but the difficulty is that I'm too protective, it's my nature to not listen to anyone, and I'm ready to show my attitude if anyone gives me advice. So now I'm changing, it's also a journey," Chien responded to a comment, showing his helplessness and determination to change.

Denying the use of wife and children to create sales content: Fighting for true family happiness .

In response to doubts about whether he is "using his wife and children as content" to attract views and likes, Chien frankly denied: "I tell you the truth, why talk nonsense, just be true to yourself rather than suffer all your life. You guys don't know the situation and don't know, no one can give advice to my wife, whether right or wrong, if you give advice, she will get angry. So I am helpless, I have to let my wife look at the negative things and change." He affirmed that both husband and wife are ready to accept correct comments from netizens to change themselves, but more importantly, he wants his wife to reconsider her attitude and personality to build true happiness.

Nguyen Dat Chien expressed his wish that his wife would become more mature, live more responsibly towards the people around her, and not blame her circumstances or fate but rise up. His decision to separate was not only a shocking act but also a wake-up call about the pressure in marriage, especially when one side is too sacrificial and protective.