Quynh Dao "natural mother" Hoan Chau How to teach children about the afterlife?

Quynh Dao was born in 1938, is a famous Chinese writer and screenwriter. In addition to the pseudonym Quynh Dao, she used the names Phuong Hoang and Tam Nhu.

Quynh Dao is known as the queen of Chinese romance novels, with a series of best-selling books such as Song Ngoai, Ky Do Dieu yanghong, Beside the water stream, Autumn leaves flying, Tired eyes looking forward, Yen Vu Butt butt (Separate River), Empty Xom... Many of her works were adapted into films, making the names of Lam Thanh Ha, Trieu Vy, Lam Tam Nhu, Tuong Can Can...

In the love story, Quynh Dao's husband is Binh Ham Dao. The two met when Mr. Binh was the editor-in-chief of Hoang Quan magazine. The two fell in love when Quynh Dao sent an article to the magazine. But at that time, Binh Ham Dao had a wife and children. The two lived in pain and torment. Quynh Dao did not ask Binh Ham Dao to divorce, on the other hand, he also praised his wife for being gentle and kind. Because she wanted to end everything, she was engaged to someone else, preparing to settle abroad. But because of that, Binh Ham Dao decided to divorce. His wife also wanted to give up. The love triangle ended after eight years. Quynh Dao and Mr. Binh Ham Dao got married in 1979. At that time, Quynh Dao's son with her ex-husband was 19 years old.

Recently, on social networks, an article was suddenly spread by Quynh Dao's letter to his son and daughter-in-law, surprising many people. In the letter, Quynh Dao said that she was at an age close to heaven and earth, she recently read an article called "A good goodbye to myself" and realized that the law has something called "Patient's right to make decisions" - adopted in Taiwan and promulgated in 2009, under which patients can make their own decisions about their own death, no longer needing doctors or family members to make decisions for them.

Female artist Quynh Dao said that she had instructed her two children, Tu Quynh and Trung Duy, about the afterlife, both children fully respect their mother's opinion, but she still wants to share her heart with all. everyone is known for fear that later if the two children regret, they do not want to let their mother leave the world:

"I think you all know how much I dread that fateful day. Now, I want to make it clear in my rights, those who read this letter can testify, that even so no matter what, no matter how much pressure you face, don't keep your mother's remains, don't turn your mother into life you can't save, you won't be able to die. .

Quynh Dao added: "This year, my mother is 79 years old, next year she will be 80. It is a long life. Mother is not because of war, disease, poverty, natural disasters... but is one step ahead. This age is already a blessing. That's why, from now on, I will accept death with a smile on my face. My wish is only:

1. No matter how seriously ill your mother is, she is determined not to have surgery. Let her go quickly. As long as the mother is smart to control everything, let her be the master, otherwise, she must obey her will.

2. Do not bring the mother to the special emergency resuscitation room.

3. No matter what, absolutely do not install a breathing tube for the mother. Because once the mother has lost the ability to swallow, she also loses the joy of eating. I don't want to live like that.

4. One more thing, no matter what, do not order nutrients to the mother. Even catheters, breathing tubes... are not working.

5. My mother has reminded me that life-saving measures such as electric shock, all kinds of machines, are not used. I want to go peacefully, this is more important than letting me live in pain.

Mother once said: When you are alive, may you be the light of the fire, burning with all your might until the last minute of your life. When I die, may I be a snowflake, fluttering down, turning into dust!"

The female singer decided she did not want to be buried according to the traditional religious rites that people do. She told her children not to post obituaries, not to do memorial ceremonies, not to burn votive papers... She wanted everything to happen quietly, simply, without ostentatiousness.

The female writer wrote: "When my mother dies, cremate her to ashes, so that she can return to dust. Children also do not write obituaries, do not memorialize, do not memorialize. Mother's death is a private matter, I do not want to do it. bother anyone. Those who love their mother understand what she means.

In addition, do not offer gold coins, do not open a spiritual path to burn incense. When my mother came there was nothing, when I left, I also prayed for a clean, no problem. The Qingming Festival does not need to worship the mother because her mother has escaped and is no longer in the world. Moreover, the Earth is getting warmer, turning votive paper and burning incense all cause the Earth to be affected. We need to protect the human environment."

Quynh Dao also hopes that the children do not mind the market controversies from outsiders. She emphasized: "The so-called solemn funeral, I don't need. Solemn funerals are only for the vain people. And when I leave, there is no longer any meaning. I want the funeral to take place. The sooner the better, the sooner I'll end it, my peace of mind. Once everything is done, please tell your friends and family. I believe they'll understand what I'm saying, don't be confused."

It is known that Quynh Dao wrote this letter in 2017, causing a fever in the Taiwanese media for a while. Recently, some netizens suddenly shared, making the letter hot again.

Lam Tam Nhu choked up and said 1 sentence when she heard the news of the death of Ms. Quynh Dao Thảo Mai4 months agoRecently, Taiwanese (Chinese) media reported that Ms. Quynh Dao died at her home, enjoying a life span of 86 years. Soon after, the reporter contacted Lam Tam Nhu to find out information.