Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen: Eating at the market, sleeping at home, becoming a widow at the age of 24 and a peaceful ending with a U50-year-old soulmate

Despite her outstanding artistic talent, the career path and emotional life of Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen are full of thorns. The female artist was once devastated when her first husband left suddenly, the second marriage was not complete.

Born and raised in a family of 4 sisters in the land of pink lotus in Dong Thap, Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen has been drawn to art since childhood. She comes from Cai Luong, known to the audience for her sweet, deep voice. Later, Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen also appeared with roles in many TV series such as Land of Happiness, Miss War, Sand Castle, The Day You Came...

In a TV program, Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen recently rarely opened up about a tearful marriage event that made viewers feel sad.

Young people wander everywhere pursuing their passion for art

Having an outstanding artistic talent from a young age, but with a large family of sisters, life is quite difficult, so artist Lam Tuyen has to struggle many times to be able to live with passion. "I couldn't study to the end, I had to take a break to help my parents take care of my children. Please allow me to pursue art, my parents won't let me. When I left, it was a storm because it was very difficult for my parents!" - female artist confided. It is known that in order to convince her parents to agree to join the art troupe, she had to write a letter to ask someone in the group to ask for it and the committee had to commit to it.

The artistic path of Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen was followed by a series of days of wandering around with the singing troupe. Have to stay up late, get up early, eat at the market and sleep at home, now clean this wharf tomorrow to another wharf to perform. Recalling that time, the female artist exclaims, "Until now, I don't understand any energy, I can't overcome it by going through such hardship."

During his artistic activities, Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen achieved remarkable achievements, typically the Tran Huu Trang Award in 2001. In 2015, he was conferred the title of excellent artist by the state. Currently, the female artist is an official at Tran Huu Trang theater, at the same time, she still participates in artistic activities, singing, acting...

Suddenly became a widow at the age of 24

Not only career, the love life of Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen is also full of difficulties. The female artist experienced a deep but tearful first love with the boy who made the sound of the art troupe. The two love each other and become married. It seemed that this was a beautiful ending for a poetic first love, but not long after the wedding day, an incident occurred that caused her husband to suddenly die.

The female artist tearfully shared about her great loss at the age of 24: "That day, I went to prepare the sound for the ensemble, fell and suffered a severe brain injury. Taking him to the hospital, 3 days later he died. in my arms. I ran in the hospital begging everywhere. After that, they took him to the morgue and brought him home for burial."

Within 1 month, the heartbreaking incident happened, artist Lam Tuyen nearly 10 kg. That event caused her to have a mental breakdown, once intended to quit singing, but because of her mother's awakening words, she decided to return to the group.

"At that time I was fasting, I fainted, so much so that I dreamed that I turned into something flying. I heard my mother crying so much. She said: 'If you love it, your soul will follow, but you have to keep the body. give it to me - artist Lam Tuyen told in tears. She said, after the incident, she returned to the stage with the purpose of making a living, not interested in fame anymore.

After the first marriage, Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen fell in love with a boy in the singing group. Pregnant with his first child, she had to go out and work with all kinds of jobs to make a living, from sewing, making buttons to doing nails to earn money to support her children. In return for those sacrifices, what she received in return was the beatings of the sky because of unreasonable jealousy and violence soaked in blood from the one who shared the same pillow every night.

"Many times when I was the main vocalist on the stage, my face was swollen and bruised! And once they got used to their hands, it was difficult to give up, it was my husband's brute force that I decided to break up, but I hid it from anyone and suffered alone. I think he was jealous of the deceased, jealous but couldn't say it, so he used force," said the female artist. In 2003, the female artist officially broke up with her second husband.

Reflecting on the difficult time and finally deciding to divorce, artist Lam Tuyen confided: "I only regret when he was young, his childhood needed his parents by his side. But at that time he was busy singing. , I send my children to my family.Because that lack of affection also affects a lot, I also try to make up for it later, but there are times when I feel I can't make up for it. I also affect my children. Many times when I hear my children talk, I also feel heartbroken."

"If the cases are too bad, parents should divorce, if possible, heal for the sake of their children. But there are things that will follow through life but cannot be compensated" - Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen further message.

Peaceful and happy life with friends

It seemed that life was no longer lucky and happy in love, the third man came to Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen as a confidant. He has accompanied and attached to her and her son for more than 17 years. Sharing about the current home, Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen happily said: "I feel that my current life is very peaceful and happy. My son and Mr. Nghia are very close and admire each other. We have not been once. ever argue or raise their voices to each other."

Recalling the opportunity to meet a soulmate, the female artist said: "I met him down in Can Tho during a singing trip. At first, when I saw his face, I thought it was cool, I thought it must be difficult to approach, he also asked me 'You are difficult. It's so good, why should I sing', 'Because I don't fit here' I wanted to cry at that time because he said it with a black heart, partly because he was also quite narcissistic because he didn't know that I had followed the path of art for a long time. Later, he knew and also encouraged me to promote, and he was always there to help and support me mentally."

Besides, she also did not forget to thank her soulmate for accompanying her to take care of her and raise her son together.

After all, artist Lam Tuyen learned a profound lesson: "There are four things in life to strive for. The first is fame, the second is wealth, the third is happiness, the fourth is strength. Health. In each person, it is impossible to have all four of them. So we have to choose which is important, half of it is good luck, that's satisfaction and happiness."

It can be seen that when one door closes, another better door opens. Same with Meritorious Artist Lam Tuyen, two painful marriages have forged a strong female artist, steady with the times to receive the perfect ending like the present.

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