Hot Mom Minh Trang reveals her views on "education without punishment"

Recently, after the article sharing views on the "no punishment" educational method of Dr. (Dr.) Vu Thu Huong was spread on social networks, many conflicting opinions were discussed enthusiastically. This issue attracts many educators and celebrities, who also give their opinions around the topic of "punishment and discipline" being mentioned.

Hot mom Minh Trang, a mother of 4 children and loved by many thanks to her interesting parenting experience articles, also shared about this issue. Minh Trang said that she did not discuss further about Dr. Vu Thu Huong. Minh Trang herself used to work with Dr. Vu Thu Huong in real life, she always respects and admires the efforts and contributions of female Dr. this with the work you are doing. Minh Trang said: "What Ms. Huong mentioned in the article, if analyzed carefully, it will be related to educational science, psychology, to the macro responsibilities of government agencies in law and education. ... I'm just a parent, I read Ms. Huong's post and I think about WHATS I CAN DO, I can CHANGE with my baby, myself and within the framework of my small family. ".

Talking about her parenting story, Minh Trang told about times when she was easily angered, easily negative, when parenting suddenly became stressful, what she was doing made herself feel overwhelmed. She often put aside all the educational methods with really cool names, or some sublime scientific research. Instead, the hot mom of 4 will close her eyes, take 3 deep breaths and imagine, what if she herself was treated the way she is treating her child?

Minh Trang gives a specific example as follows: "There are guests coming to visit and have dinner, you are clearing the tray and accidentally drop the bowl, your husband will immediately shout loudly, criticize you for being clumsy, and punish you for not eating. At night, even hitting you, or will he laugh, clean up together and remind you to be more careful next time?

She continued to give a few more examples such as: "You enter a new company, get a new position, are in the process of an apprenticeship, you are confused with everything. You will be brought out in front of the whole company, named. , name the mistake, get scolded by your boss and colleagues, get punished for cleaning the company toilet for 1 month, or you will be reminded, given the opportunity to spend time observing, learning, experimenting and being covered. You may have your salary deducted or even fired due to incompetence to meet the job requirements, but your honor and person will always be respected. ?"

Regarding child care, Minh Trang also posed a problem for diaper mothers: "You have just given birth, take care of a small child, and continue to work. Unfortunately, your child has a fever. You will be blamed by the whole family. , being compared with the neighbors' wives, being "labeled" as a bad mother, unable to take care of children, working, neglecting the family... Or you will be supported and shared by the whole family. Your husband will spend time sharing housework, supporting child care, communicating and understanding you, accepting the fact that your child's fever can be caused by many reasons and you have do the best you can with love and understanding, your own best time?" Finally, hot mom Minh Trang concludes that: "We always want to be heard, shared, understood, given opportunities, do not like to be punished physically, insulted honor, threatened, humiliation... the same is true of children."

Previously, according to Dr. Vu Thu Huong, the "no punishment" style of education makes people condemn all punishments. Of course, hitting, cursing and insulting children is not allowed, but even punishments such as "copying and punishing", "fines not exercising" that many parents also condemn, Dr. Huong realizes that this will cause children to suffer many consequences. Such consequences can be mentioned as: A large number of 6-year-old children do not learn because their parents teach in this style, children react to all forms of discipline from teachers, do not have a sense of compliance with the rules. determined, children despise their parents, adults, the school is helpless, trying to "kick" rebellious students out of school... After sharing by Dr. Vu Thu Huong, who agrees with her a lot, also has many objections. On social media after that, many parents expressed their views on this issue.