Hai Yen Idol: Journey to conquer passion, happy marriage, banning husband from drinking

Hai Yen Idol's real name is Nguyen Hai Yen, she is a familiar singer to music lovers. Possessing an emotional but also powerful voice, she has participated in many music competitions and won the hearts of the audience.

Before taking steady steps, Hai Yeu Idol had a very long and difficult journey. At that time, she thought she was pushed into a corner, but with her own courage and effort, she overcame everything.

As a contestant on Vietnam Idol at a very young age, she was not used to the pressure from the public, had not really integrated into the professional music environment, and even had to change her living environment to pursue her passion.

Hai Yen affirmed that today's achievements do not only come from talent or passion, but also the result of constant efforts. That journey requires not only strength but also money. Because to pursue art, a singer not only needs to practice singing but also invest in image, products and career orientation in a systematic way: "For many years, I had to rent a house and until making this album, I still did not have a stable place to live. I used to do all kinds of jobs, from 7am to 11pm, just to earn money for music. But not for a moment did I think about giving up. Because for me, music is not just work - it is life. And no matter how difficult it is, I will continue to walk on this path", the female singer confided.

What Hai Yen regrets the most is the decline of CDs - the pride of artists at one time. "What I regret the most is that CDs are gradually being forgotten. Nowadays, people listen to music on digital platforms, the income from which is not much, but in return, artists have the opportunity to shine through shows and personal images." Although the music market has changed, she always tries her best with each product. "For me, each album, each product released is a great effort. I just hope that the audience will always welcome and love the melodies that I bring."

Hai Yen admitted that she used to have to do business to make ends meet. Every time she saw her friends appear on TV, she couldn't help but feel sorry for herself. Although she couldn't devote herself to music because her financial situation didn't allow it, she always believed that only hard work and effort could help her reach her dream. "There are times when I crave to stand on stage, but I'm willing to wait, no matter how long it takes. I will definitely do it" - Hai Yen affirmed with determination.

Happy marriage

One of the motivations that helped Hai Yen overcome that difficult period came from her secretive husband. She said: "Although he is not very talented, not handsome, not rich, he always supports all the work I do. He respects that very much because he sees how happy I am when I go to work."

Hai Yen now resembles the model she dreamed of when she was 17: A woman who has a good job and keeps her family. "To me, a successful person is someone who balances life well. That is very difficult, not easy, requiring time and effort. Looking back, I have to thank my husband," the singer of "More than once" confided.

Forbid husband from drinking

Recently, the program Sisters Solve Problems aired with the participation of singer Hai Yen Idol. This week's program is related to the topic "Drinking Husband".

The first person to call the program was Ms. A, who had to go on a business trip to an area without phone signal. When she called to check on her husband, she discovered that he had forgotten to pick up their child, forcing the child to sleep at the teacher's house because he was too busy drinking and did not respond to 72 missed calls.

Singer Hai Yen confided: "Listening to the story reminds me of my childhood. I remember my mother's tears in the rain after giving birth, when she returned home she only saw her father lying in the yard, and her precious bicycle was gone.

That's why I made a rule from the beginning of my relationship that I would never date a man who drinks. I forbid my husband from drinking.

While it avoided chaos at home, it also left my husband sometimes marginalized in the work environment, where drinking was the glue that held us together.

All business and work-related matters were discussed at the drinking table, but my husband was almost left out. Even when he went to his wife's house for a party, he had to sit at the table with women and children.

If I were in the character's situation, I would still stay calm and ask the first question: "Do you remember what happened yesterday?", to observe my husband's reaction. For me, the man's attitude when facing the incident is the key. Changing drinking habits takes time, but there must be a clear explanation so that the husband can face the consequences and take responsibility for himself. From there, we can hope for a real change.

For me, one drinking session is enough to talk frankly, not waiting for the second or third time to react.

The second person who sent a letter to the program was Ms. B, who shared her suffering from being labeled as a violent person because she worried about her husband every time he went out drinking. She said that her husband often got so drunk that he passed out at the table. Therefore, she had to constantly call him to remind him to come home. But that very worry made her accused of being controlling and gossiped about by her husband's friends.

Singer Hai Yen shared: "I once saw a wife who went to the drinking table to break up her husband's friends, leading to the husband losing his friends and the couple being angry with each other for months.

For me, the solution is not to confront, but to find allies in the family, to talk frankly to help my husband understand the consequences of drinking.

In my opinion, instead of arguing, let's find a way to get the husband back with the support of influential relatives.

My way is to find family members and allies first, and secondly, to talk frankly to him about the consequences and things that can happen that he cannot foresee when drinking.

Many wives are labeled as fierce just because they care, worry and want to preserve the family. No woman wants to control her husband or become unpleasant in the eyes of the person she loves. They only become strong because of responsibility, love and the pressures of married life."

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