Actor Dao Van Anh burst into tears because she was helpless as a single mother

Actor Dao Van Anh shared about living alone raising children, once cried because of helplessness, advised everyone to consider carefully before deciding to become a single mother.

As a guest in the Vietnamese Family Shelter , Dao Van Anh could not help but be touched by the image of women who lost their husbands, alone in the early afternoon to feed their children. The actress expressed her sympathy for the 3 mothers on the show because she herself is going through the same situation, taking care of her 2 sons alone.

"However, I feel like I'm still much luckier because I have a better job, more money to go and make money to take care of my children better than 3 characters. They have many difficulties such as illness, no money, children and many children. But they were powerful beyond my imagination. Looking at them, I feel like I am nothing, I am still too small during the past motherhood," Dao Van Anh said.

Sharing her own story, Dao Van Anh said that the phrase "single mother" is not easy. For the actress, it has always been harder for a woman to do things than a man, so it is even harder to do their job and do the man's job in a family.

Currently, Dao Van Anh is both a mother and a father of 2 sons. As a woman, she had many difficulties not knowing how to share the role of a father with her sons.

The actress expressed, " I was really nervous at first but because of circumstances, I had to always try and not let my 2 children feel like they only had their mother and no father. I want you to see that this is an invisible father within who you are. It still creates a sense of security and fulfillment, a happy family for you even though your shadow is really lacking."

The "Step-Aunt Restaurant" actor added that sometimes she herself is helpless, wanting to give it all up but can't. She said that as a single mother, she should never cry in front of her children, never cry in front of her mother because those are the people who are leaning on her shoulders. If they cry in front of them, they won't know who to rely on.

Therefore, at times of exhaustion and helplessness, Dao Yunying almost dared to burst into tears when he was alone. But then, after those tears, she stood up very strongly and continued to try for the mother of two young children.

Dao Van Anh said that she is confident because she has done what she wants as well as is satisfied with her current life. In addition, the mother of two also gave her opinion on the choice of single mother of many women today.

"Women are very modern, strong and good at brushing now, so they are very confident in themselves and their lives. But if they haven't experienced it, they don't feel how lonely and difficult it is to take on two roles in a family alone.

If you want to choose the path of single motherhood, you must learn very carefully about your own bravery. You must prepare carefully about your job and income level. If you have enough things, decide to do it," Dao Yunying said.

As a strong woman, Dao Van Anh affirmed that being a single mother is not an easy journey. For the actress, a 24-hour day is not enough because she has to take care of her mother, take care of her two children, go to filming, rehearsing plays as well as managing and teaching acting on a stage with her colleagues.

"The amount of work is getting thicker and thicker, but I have to do it because the older my children get, the more they spend. My income can't stop at the current level, I have to always try harder. I have to accumulate to prepare for a long future, to take care of myself as well as my children and for my mother in the future," Dao Van Anh said.

However, the "Step-Aunt Restaurant" star has always tried to strike a good balance between work and family. On Tet holidays or important family occasions, Dao Van Anh always spends priority time with her mother and 2 sons. For the actress, the fact that she often goes to movies, is busy with work, so she does not have much time to be close and take care of her family has been a disadvantage for relatives.

Therefore, on their important days, she will prioritize getting her family together, keeping the atmosphere happy on the important days that are her family's communication.

Talking about how to teach her children, Dao Van Anh said that she always lets her children experience and feel the life around them every day, whenever they have the opportunity to be with them.

She said: "I teach my children stories that have just happened along the way, I come across stories that I can share and guide them right there. Or let them watch and share their feelings when watching meaningful programs like in Vietnamese Family Shelter. And up to this point, I feel very proud because they are so good and understanding. They understand that they need to love their mother, take care of her and absorb what she teaches them so that she can feel secure when she goes to work."

The mother-of-two added that she was surprised and touched many times by her children's understanding and kindness. When they stopped at red lights, they often noticed old people sitting on the side of the road selling lottery tickets or asking for money, and they asked Dao Van Anh to help them a little. Or when seeing old people selling lottery tickets too hard, the son also wants his mother to buy them a few sheets.

The actress was touched when she heard her son say, "Buying lottery tickets is not to win but to help people sell. You know, if you buy this lottery ticket, you can help her sell lottery tickets and maybe I win the lottery. And if you win the lottery, you will have less to work hard, and then you will have money to pay for your child's education and be able to help many others."

In particular, her eldest son once confided in his mother and wanted to grow up trying to earn a lot of money to build a big house. Those who wandered the streets would invite them there so they wouldn't have to roam the streets anymore. The growth and understanding of his son makes actor Dao Van Anh proud and happy.

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