Psychologist clearly explains about Chau Hai My, is the beautiful person still living in loneliness?

The loneliness at the end of her life of "Chu Chi Nhuoc" Chau Hai My saddened many audiences, colleagues and friends. Whether fame, money or beauty, she has it all, even a lot. But at the end of her life, the actress still passed away in loneliness.

On the evening of December 12, Chau Hai My - the actress who played the role of Chu Chi Nhuoc in "The Heavenly Dragon 1996" passed away at the age of 57 due to a critical illness. For many years, the late artist devoted all his love to pets, living alone to take care of 2 dogs, 2 cats, a hedgehog and a rabbit.

When she was young, Chau Hai My was famous for her beautiful beauty, known as "the most beautiful Chu Chi Nhuoc on screen", and had no shortage of suitors. However, after several love relationships and a failed marriage, the actress chose to live a single life, without getting married or having children.

In reality, not only Chau Hai My but many people with outstanding and attractive appearances often have lonely lives. This has been explained from a scientific perspective.

Societal trends suggest that being physically attractive is desirable. Many people believe that "beauty is an advantage", it is like a priority ticket in life. Even "pretty privilege" has become a hotly discussed topic. Thereby, people cannot help but be surprised at the privileges or favors given to someone just because they have a more outstanding appearance than others.

Good appearance is indeed an advantage. However, research by psychologists and human behavior experts shows that contrary to the popular belief mentioned above, people with "red faces" are actually lonelier than normal people.

Beautiful women - centers of envy

Research in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that attractive people have difficulty forming real friendships with others, especially people of the same sex. This happens due to jealousy and envy.

If men turn resentment into motivation, women turn jealousy into aversion. It is easy to see that beautiful women are rarely popular with their female colleagues. They are isolated, become the topic of discussion among their colleagues, and every action related to their superiors can be labeled as "pleasing the boss, baiting the boss"...If you are a Korean movie enthusiast. or Hong Kong, you are probably no longer unfamiliar with the image of beautiful, charming, innocent, and talented employees being tortured to death by their sisters. Unintentionally, sometimes beauty, which is a characteristic advantage, becomes a disadvantage in an environment full of rumors and gossip.

For this reason, the academic or career success of people with good looks is often attributed to appearance and luck, not ability. They are even judged as incompetent at work or unworthy of a rich, happy life.

Being judged during the first meeting makes the date feel nervous

The halo effect can attribute positive characteristics to attractive people such as intelligence, cleanliness, good manners, etc., but it can also cause a bad first impression on others. around. According to research by Sage magazine, these negative feelings are often unapproachable, arrogant, self-centered, incompetent, promiscuous, etc. This reduces social interaction with people. hey, even dating.

Apparently, attractive people are thought to have an easier time dating and falling in love because they always have many suitors. However, that is a misunderstanding, especially on dating apps. According to Christian Rudder, co-founder of the online dating platform OKCupid, people with a normal, sometimes unattractive appearance are more likely to find true love from the online dating platform.

In addition, Rudder also believes that when a person meets a very attractive person, they will think that the other person has too many suitors and may not pay attention to them. And no one likes being rejected, so they often ignore it and tend to connect with more normal people, making them think that there might be a chance of a date.

Young people today often talk about energy, but people with strong physical appeal will often be said to radiate the energy of "flowers that already have a master". That's why today there are many young, beautiful girls who are still single just because they look like someone who has a boyfriend.

In short, possessing outstanding beauty is something that many people desire and desire. It is also an advantage so that life has more opportunities. But everything has two sides. From not being appreciated at work to not being able to communicate effectively, being physically attractive can actually decrease your quality of life.

Chinese showbiz was shocked to hear that "Chu Chi Nhuoc" Chau Hai My suddenly passed away Mẫn Nhi07:17:33 13/12/2023The sudden passing of actress Chau Hai My made her colleagues and audiences surprised and saddened. Many artists have expressed their condolences and left many messages to remember her.