Tearing up the message of a parent whose child failed the 10th grade entrance exam, netizens argued

Netizens are spreading a message from a parent whose child took the entrance exam at age 10, but failed because of poor performance. This is the result of being addicted to playing games and skipping school, parents have both a headache and a heavy heart. No matter how much they read, netizens will be heartbroken.

Recently, on a group with more than 440k followers, a parent shared the story of his child's 10th grade entrance exam. She said that although the test scores have not been officially announced, she partly guessed that her child would not be able to get into a public school because "Math was done wrong, Literature was off topic, and English was not very good."

Predicting the outcome, I could only cry and apologize to my parents. Seeing that, the mother did not scold her child but only encouraged her child, advising him to try and then his parents would find a way to register him for a private school or supplementary school so that he could have a high school diploma. "But if you still quit If you don't study like a middle school student, you will definitely fail university and later work hard manual jobs like your parents," the mother warned.

It is known that this family's situation is not too well off. Her husband works as a porter, so whoever hires him can do it, mostly heavy work. As for me, it's better, working for the company for 8 hours doesn't mean "selling my face to the earth, selling my back to the sky" but the salary is not better.

"I also tell my children, who are the suffering people? It's the parents themselves, because now parents have to frantically look for private schools, continuing education or vocational schools for their children. Even though our family is poor, our husband and I have difficulties. I still try to send my child to private tutoring, but during class time my child just sleeps or plays video games, so with exam results like that, my parents now have to pay more for their children's private school tuition "The people suffering the most right now are probably not the children, but the parents," the mother confided. Finally, the mother asked netizens for advice on "how to teach her child to study well without spending money, helping her and her husband 'financially' pay for their child's education."

After this post was published, many parents confided and gave advice to this mother because their children did not pass well, did not study hard, and the saddest people were the parents. Regarding the two options of vocational training and private schooling, each person will have a different opinion, but most people think that the decision should come from the family and the student themselves.

In another development, many people also commented on this mother's way of talking to her children. Even though she doesn't use harsh words, the mother's way of speaking will somehow make the child feel sad, and then torment herself even more. Furthermore, this is a decision that affects their child's future, so parents should talk frankly instead of texting online.

"I'm a high school teacher. You don't have to go to high school to get a university degree. Many students who study at continuing education centers still pass the university entrance exam, even Hanoi Law University, so don't worry too much. More Again, let me give you a small suggestion, I'll happily ignore it if it doesn't please your ears: Don't tell your children how expensive it is, how hard it is to raise them, a good child will be under great pressure (possibly falling). depressed because they feel like they have failed, make their parents suffer, see their existence as redundant, and are bored with life), a bad child may have the opposite reaction: do you want to be born? , nicknamed H expressed.

Parent T left a comment: "I think parents should talk to their children frankly, not send messages online like that. Out of sight is out of mind, children may choose to avoid facing their families." , you should open up more and show your children that you always listen to them actively, without judgment."

The PT user shared: "Parents should have a serious talk with their children, give them two directions to choose from, and then present the pros and cons and parents' concerns about the choices. People The choice should be the child, not the parents. Parents should only be the ones to guide.