Vy Pham got angry and went online to "badmouth" her biological mother because she had many taboos when taking care of her child.

The situation where Vy Pham got angry when her biological mother "scrutinized every little thing" about taking care of her young child is receiving a lot of attention from netizens. Because this is no longer her personal story, but the concern of millions of young mothers today.

Vy Pham's real name is Pham Thi Quynh Nhu, born in 1996, is a TikToker with an account of more than 1.5 million followers and has accumulated more than 28.6 million likes for her videos. The content she focuses on is married life, raising children, fashion style and humorous daily situations with her husband Dung Gee.

Vy Pham and Dung Gee always make people laugh out loud because of their savoriness when filming videos. Typically, the way they talk to troll their husbands is very funny and their sensitive gestures are extremely funny. With that humor, friendliness and wit, the couple quickly received a lot of attention from everyone.

Recently, Vy Pham attracted attention when sharing a video showing the huge disagreements in child care with her biological mother. One of the main reasons that made her "angry" was the traditional taboos that her mother still believed in absolutely.

The old people believed that children who cry a lot are considered to have a weak soul and often encounter bad things. But according to science and modern mothers like Vy Pham - who has access to information from pediatricians, children crying a lot is simply the only way to communicate their needs to adults. Children can cry because they are hungry, because their diaper is wet, because they are sleepy, because they are uncomfortable, or simply need to be comforted.

Another taboo that gives Vy Pham a "headache" is her biological mother's habit of "putting lipstick on when going out" for her grandchild. Because she believes that when the child goes out, putting a little lipstick or drawing a red mark (from lipstick, or even soot) on the child's forehead or cheeks will help "drive away evil spirits" and prevent "evil spirits" from following them home. According to science, applying lipstick or any other cosmetic on a child's thin, sensitive skin can cause irritation, allergies, and rashes that can get worse if not treated promptly. A baby's skin does not have the ability to protect itself like an adult's, and the chemical ingredients in cosmetics can cause serious harm.

Finally, what makes young mothers like Vy Pham most upset is the notion that "Easy-to-raise babies should not be praised". The belief that praising a baby for being easy to raise, obedient, and chubby will cause "ghosts to notice", "the baby will get sick", "cry" or even "lose their soul" is a deep taboo. Grandparents often advise their children not to say anything about being easy to raise to avoid "bad luck" for the baby. Nowadays, it is considered superstitious. Child psychology science encourages parents to encourage and praise their children at the right time to build confidence, develop self-esteem and promote positive behavior.

Vy Pham's video is not only her family's personal story but also a very real, very Vietnamese slice of everyday life where two generations with different mindsets are colliding. The belief in "better safe than sorry" and in spiritual things has become an inseparable part of the way they perceive and care for their children and grandchildren. But the foundation of those desires often has no scientific basis.

For the younger generation (Vy Pham – modern KOL), on the contrary, this generation has extremely diverse and easy access to information through the internet, books, reputable medical channels and directly from pediatricians. They prioritize scientific child-rearing methods with clear medical evidence.

In the video, Vy Pham is not angry or yelling, but instead is "grumbling, saying things sarcastically", sometimes asking meaningful questions like "Why can't I praise my child for being easy to raise anymore?". This shows that she is trying to stay calm but her frustration and helplessness have reached its peak. This is the reason why her video has created great sympathy from the online community, especially from modern mothers who both love their children and... "feel" for their biological mothers.

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