The son-in-law must "cohabit" with someone worse than the princess before getting married, why?

I thought that being a son-in-law would bring me honor and wealth, and everyone would respect me, but who would have thought that behind the reputation of the princess's husband was not a simple story.

When it comes to concubines, almost everyone knows that this person is the princess's fiance, the emperor's son-in-law. But few people know that initially, concubine was not the name of the princess's husband, but the name of an official - concubine captain.

According to historical records, the position of royal concubine appeared during the Qin Dynasty, responsible for the king's travel. To make it easier to understand, this is the current profession of a carriage driver, the position is not high at all.

Until the state of Wei during the Three Kingdoms period, Ha Yen (nephew of General Ha Tien at the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, Cao Cao's adopted son) married a princess, his position at that time was lieutenant-counsel.

Wang Te of the Jin Dynasty also became the emperor's son-in-law, having previously held this position. Therefore, later on, the people called the man who married the princess with jade leaves and golden branches a prince-in-law.

During the Liao and Jin dynasties, people also used the same name. Until the Qing Dynasty, the royal concubine was changed to "the concubine", and his status gradually improved. But one thing that cannot be changed is that the criteria for choosing someone to become a son-in-law is extremely difficult, not everyone can.

During the Tang Dynasty, the selection of concubines often came from famous families, especially families with glorious victories and great contributions to the court. Because, in order to be a good match, the person marrying the princess must come from a wealthy background, have a title and high position in society.

However, in the Song Dynasty, the criteria for choosing a concubine were completely opposite. Because this era emphasized literature over martial arts and the emperor liked to choose a son-in-law for the princess from among the doctors recognized every year.

By the Ming Dynasty, the marriages of princesses gradually tended to be "commoner", because they hated the bad consequences when people who were not part of the royal family wanted to interfere in the court.

For that reason, Chu Nguyen Chuong established the rule that "princesses are not allowed to marry into official families" to prevent his royal power from being threatened.

Even though such a rule has been set, the princess is still the daughter of the head of the country, so when the royal family chooses a concubine, they must of course be outstanding, combining both appearance and talent. power.

But the reality is more cruel than many people think. The princess lives in the palace all year round, and if she wants to choose a husband, she can only let her servants do it. As a result, during the Ming Dynasty, many emperor's daughters were tricked into marriage, the most famous of which was the marriage of Princess Yong Ninh.

Specifically, in the Van Lich years of the Ming Dynasty, Ming Than Tong assigned the eunuch Phung Bao the responsibility of selecting a concubine for Vinh Ninh. However, after receiving a huge amount of bribe money, eunuch Phung Bao chose Luong Bang Thuy as his son-in-law.

Although his son-in-law Luong had a good family background, he had serious tuberculosis. It is unclear how the eunuch managed to pass the rigorous health checks.

Later, when she returned to her husband's house and learned of her husband's illness, Princess Vinh Ninh was very shocked. Just 2 months after the wedding, her son-in-law passed away, and at that time she was still a virgin. Even the princess was thought by people to be destined to be incompatible with her husband, causing her to fall into depression and melancholy.

The unhappy marriage that the princess of the Ming Dynasty experienced left a deep mark in the history of the Qing Dynasty. Since then, there has been a big change in choosing a husband-in-law.

Accordingly, the Qing Dynasty carefully reviewed and reformed the marriage regime to avoid similar tragedies from happening again. And then, the kissing test mode was born. This regime applies to the princess's marriage partner.

It can be simply understood that, the man will have to go through a trial marriage with another woman, so that the court can evaluate whether or not he is worthy to be the husband of the princess with golden branches and jade leaves. And the chosen woman will have the name "kissing tester".

The future concubine is not an outsider or a mandarin's daughter, but is chosen by the queen from among the maids. The first requirement is a healthy body. Next, the appearance is average to low, especially not more beautiful than a princess.

This person will live together with the concubine for 1 month, while observing to see if he has any bad habits and recording them. More importantly, we still have to check whether the royal son-in-law is in good health or not, and can the princess become pregnant?

On the last day of the month, the "kissing tester" needs to present all his notes for the month to the queen, so that she can evaluate whether the son-in-law is qualified to marry his daughter or not.

As people sent by the royal family, it can be said that these girls hold the right to "live and kill" the princess's marriage. If she reports good results, the emperor will let the princess lower the price. But if the result is the opposite, the marriage will be annulled.

However, a palace maid who is chosen to "cohabitate" with a concubine in place of her master often finds it difficult to avoid having countless tragedies in her later life. For example, if the princess feels that she and her son-in-law are not compatible, the "kiss test" will be considered a "sacrifice" to endure the sufferings of the master instead.

Furthermore, within 1 month of living with her husband, this girl lost her virginity, but in the end she was only a tool in the experiment. Even if you develop feelings for the other person, you are not allowed to confess them because you are not allowed to. If she violates the rules, she can be prosecuted.

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