Ngan Quynh causes controversy: 'Men who love their mothers and forget their wives easily break up their families'

In the latest episode of the show "24 hours of truth", MC Dai Nghia and actress Ngan Quynh discussed the topic "When the lover is the mother's beloved son", where she made statements that stirred up the online community.

The relationship between a mother and her son, especially when the son is married, is always a topic that attracts public attention. Actress Ngan Quynh and MC Dai Nghia shared frankly, giving a multi-dimensional perspective on this issue, emphasizing the importance of balance and independence in a family.

According to Ngan Quynh, to have a lasting marriage, couples need to understand each other's thoughts and lifestyles. The actress affirmed that a son's filial piety towards his mother is a precious thing, but if that filial piety goes beyond the limit, becomes blind dependence and overwhelms the feelings for his partner, then it is a big problem. She gave strong advice: "If a man always puts his mother first without caring about his girlfriend's feelings, it is best to break up."

Ngan Quynh explained that the habit of being too dependent on one's mother is not easy to change. This is a "programming" that has been formed since childhood, often stemming from the mother's desire to control. Although a girl can accept this when she is in love, when entering marriage, conflicts will certainly arise, causing cracks in the couple's feelings.

Dai Nghia agrees with this point of view but also raises a practical question: "What if one day the mother is no longer around?" He points out that excessive dependence on the mother will make the man passive, lacking life skills and unable to take care of himself, let alone shoulder family responsibilities. When the mother is no longer the support, who will replace that role in everything? Dai Nghia's question touches on a core issue: the independence and maturity of men.

Ngan Quynh emphasized the importance of balance in married life. A man must know how to love and share with his wife, while still being filial to his mother. This harmony requires the husband to be skillful in handling situations, and not let his love for his mother unintentionally hurt his partner. "Loving your mother too much and neglecting your wife can easily break up the family," she concluded.

The role of the man is to decide, to be the one to connect and reconcile the two relationships. If the husband is proactive, knows how to arrange everything so that both mother and wife feel loved and respected, the family will be strong. On the contrary, if the husband is passive, the mother needs to be aware of her son's excessive dependence to help him grow up.

The actress of "Come Home, My Child" also expanded the issue to the role of parents. Many parents often confuse control and imposition with love and protection for their children. However, this action unintentionally deprives children of their freedom and ability to make their own decisions. Ngan Quynh shared a profound philosophy: "Everyone wants to live comfortably, don't impose your thoughts on others. Sometimes what you think is good, is a burden to others."

Closing the story, Dai Nghia sent a meaningful message to parents. He advised them to let their children take responsibility for their own lives, make their own choices, and accept the price if they make mistakes. When parents keep a "sufficient distance", family relationships will become healthier. This helps maintain intimacy, filial piety of children, and strengthens the love between husband and wife.

Independence, balance, and mutual respect are the key elements that create a happy family, where both filial piety and love are fulfilled.

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