"Rainy sister" Thanh Vy (FAPtv) rarely reveals an unhappy married life, suffering from depression

Thanh Vy FAPtv put aside her passion for art to nurture a small family, wholeheartedly for her children, but still having marital conflicts that caused her marriage to fall apart after 4 years, making her life difficult.

Actress - model Thanh Vy (born in 1992, Ben Tre) is known to the audience through the comedy series of FAPtv group and especially the female lead of the million-view MV "Rain's sister" by singer Huong Tram.

In addition, she also appeared in the MVs of many singers such as Dong Nhi, Duc Phuc, ... or the Tet film "Death to the jackpot" that caused a storm when playing alongside Bach Cong Khanh. With a beautiful appearance and acting talent, Thanh Vy is a bright name, expected to soon shine on the artistic path. However, when gradually asserting her talent, Thanh Vy suddenly retired to be a wife and mother, causing many people to regret.

After the breakdown of a marriage of only 4 years, Thanh Vy is now the mother of a beautiful 4-year-old boy. At "Confiding in a mother's milk" episode 165, Thanh Vy appeared to share her happiness when receiving motherhood, choking to reveal the "turbulences" when suffering from severe depression that caused her mother to lose her mind. direction.

Looking at the little girl suffering trauma and mental decline, MC Ngoc Lan was also saddened, especially expressing her willingness to support Thanh Vy to return to her profession.

Thanh Vy shared her charm with her husband during a filming trip. With the support of their families, the two soon decided to get married and planned to have a baby after 5 months of finding out.

The actress beamed again, "I really like babies and have a plan to give birth, but my body is also difficult to have children because I had surgery to remove one fallopian tube. During a general check-up. To see if my body was ready, the doctor discovered that I was pregnant for 1 month. I still like the feeling of holding a stick with two lines, so even though I knew I was pregnant, my husband still bought 10 sticks for me to try. for my family, my mother and mother-in-law are very happy."

Physical capital is difficult to conceive, but luck has come, so Thanh Vy is also more careful, deciding to stop all work activities to focus on pregnancy care. In the second month of pregnancy, the actress had severe morning sickness, could not eat anything but vomited continuously, causing severe weight loss to only 36-38 kg. Fortunately, the morning sickness lasted only 1 month, and Thanh Vy enjoyed a complete pregnancy in the pampering, love and care of her husband and family.

In the last days of pregnancy, Thanh Vy was diagnosed by a doctor with a narrow pelvis that was difficult to give birth, so she asked for a caesarean section. Not knowing what labor pain is, the actress was very leisurely with her husband to give birth, because she vomited to meet her child, she was not worried or afraid.

Thanh Vy recalled: "I had a dermoid tumor next to the baby, so the doctor would remove it on the day of surgery. The baby had just come skin-to-skin with me, she was so small that she cried loudly. The baby was carried out and still was born. I continued to lie down, due to excessive blood loss, I became dizzy and vomited. I was very worried, praying for peace to see my baby.

Peeling off the tumor took a while, after peeling it off, I fainted, went to the recovery room for 4 hours more than just waiting to see my baby. When he pushed me into the operating room and my husband waited outside, when the baby came out, he looked at the baby for a bit and then continued to wait for me to come out, holding hands to cheer and take care. The husband was loved by his wife more than his children, that time was very happy." Sharing about the moment when he first saw his child, skin-to-skin, holding and breastfeeding, Thanh Vy's eyes were radiant with happiness that made the two MCs also happy. contagious fun.

Thanh Vy is quite fortunate to always have her husband and family to accompany and take care of her, so it is not difficult to get used to the life of a diaper mother in the first month. At the end of the first month, Thanh Vy was alone with her children after her mother returned to her hometown and her husband returned to work.

In the past, Thanh Vy was active, full of energy, free to meet people, but now to fulfill the role of a mother, she has to accept at home, almost completely limiting contact and meeting. 3 months after giving birth, Thanh Vy showed signs of depression and the disease became more and more obvious.

"The incision still hurts, it's difficult to walk, I often have nightmares, wake up in the middle of the night and ask my baby to breathe, move away. I keep thinking about negative problems. By the 5th month, the baby was born. Sure enough, my husband also saw my problem, so the whole family flew to Australia to meet my mother-in-law. Changing the environment made me feel better but still very different. Seeing that my husband was busy working to take care of my mother and daughter, I also less complaining.

When the child was almost 2 years old, the whole family returned to Vietnam, at that time there was still an epidemic, so they had to take a rescue flight back, return and then continue to stay at home doing nothing. The couple had emotional conflicts, I wanted to go back to work, but my husband and family wanted me to stay at home to take care of the children. At first, I was also comfortable because my baby needed my mother more when I was young, but gradually I realized that even though I love my child, I still feel sad and can't explain it.

I am so stressed that I have negative actions towards myself. At that time, I couldn't go to the clinic, so I went online to find a psychologist for direct advice. I recently ended my marriage with my husband.

Right now my mentality is a bit negative, I'm trying to work again not just as an art but as a normal person. There was a time when I didn't dare to look in the mirror, I was no longer myself."- Thanh Vy choked.

As an experienced Doctor of Psychology, To Nhi A soon realized Thanh Vy's problem: "Loving children is one thing, but my life is another. In addition to being a mother, how can you forget that you are also an actress? , is a woman who needs to socialize" .

An actor, model after a few years of absence will really be difficult to return. MC Ngoc Lan wholeheartedly encouraged Thanh Vy to reconnect with the outside to restore her inner spirit: "You come back to me, I will support you, I have no shortage of work for you to do. Now going back to the job is also quite difficult. , but I'll give it a try."

Through her own experiences, Thanh Vy urges moms to try to stay relaxed, connect with society more and live for themselves. Hopefully with the optimism and efforts of Thanh Vy, the audience will soon see the "muse" of "Rain's sister" back on the screen.

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