Asking her husband for gifts 8/3, the wife was shouted at directly: "If you want a gift, go find another husband."

This wife's story is currently receiving a lot of attention from netizens. Everyone expressed their sorrow when she did not receive the inherent love and pampering from her husband, especially on a very meaningful day for women.

Recently, social media has been spreading the story of an anonymous woman talking about her husband's cold act on March 8. Specifically, the woman said that when she asked her husband about the gift on this special day, instead of having fun, he "splashed a dipper" on her, causing her to feel shocked and ashamed.

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The girl confided: "My wife and I have been married for 7 years, have two children together that are "boring enough". The first daughter is 6 years old this year, the younger son is 3 years old. Family life is also harmonious but not very happy because my husband is patriarchal. Everything in his family is controlled, where I go or what I do must be approved by him. Yet, he never acted romantically, psychologically to comfort his wife.

Thinking that fate must be, I always tried to be patient and accept, comforting myself that he was a good father to my children after all. However, when it comes to Valentine's Day or women's holidays like 8/3 or 20/10, I am sad, because not only does he not act flattering, but he is also annoyed when I express expectation or sadness. Actually, when he first fell in love, he gave me gifts a few times, but since we got married, it has completely stopped. On special days for women, my friends race to show off gifts, show off flowers flooding social networks, I am very happy, sometimes sad. He knew, but ignored it.

This year, I decided to make it clear to my husband about my thoughts and feelings, asking him to give him a gift on March 8 for me, that for him it was just a formality but for me it was a great joy. In response, my husband poured me cold water by stating bluntly: "Don't expect me to give any gifts, want to be given gifts and find someone else. I don't like the holidays, I don't go shopping for gifts for anyone." When I heard that, I just shut up."

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According to the wife, it is true that her husband is a very romantic man, but this romance is only for other women, not himself. Even though she knew it, she kept it in her heart instead of explaining, because her husband was a very patriarchal man.

The woman choked up and continued: "What saddens me the most is that despite treating my wife like this, at work, my husband still participates in organizing honor programs and 8/3 parties for colleagues. He took on the task of going to the supermarket to buy sweets and fruits, and went through the flower shop to pick each flower and arrived at the office very early to give to his sisters. Before the holidays, his company's chat group was busy discussing preparations, which he also enthusiastically responded to.

I don't understand why my husband is so kind and well-groomed in foreign affairs, but domestic relations are so harsh and insensitive to his wife. Meanwhile, I'm not the kind of woman who doesn't fulfill the responsibilities of a good wife, good mother, strawberry. Well, I encouraged myself that this was my husband's personality, and if I wanted to continue living together, I had to suffer. Not only was I ignored by him on March 8, even his mother, the most important woman, had never received a wish or gift or flower for a woman's day.

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However, no matter how comforting I am, I still feel miserable and resentful because I cannot deny the fact that I am despised and disrespected by my husband as much as outsiders. Not only with holiday gifts, in everyday life, he is always grumpy and harsh with me, but with other women in society, he is always gentle, sweet, courteous."

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This story immediately after being shared quickly received a lot of attention from the public. Many sisters expressed their grievances on her behalf by marrying a patriarchal, heartless man. Many advise her to actively leave this husband, not to continue to waste more time and youth for a man who does not appreciate her.

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